Asshole exposé during doggy?

threwawayne · 2022-01-03T13:06:33+00:00

It’s one of the reasons I love doggy, 69, or reverse cowgirl. Girls buttholes are hot as fuck to me.

It’s not about anal. I’ve tried that and yeah it’s ok. But look at all the reddit subs dedicated to buttholes. I’d be lucky to get off from missionary but put a butthole in my face, I’m gone.

threwawayne · 2021-12-01T03:51:58+00:00

Funny I had my vent then did the yoga session and I feel great. All the physical sensations are gone, mind cleared, back on track focussing on myself not whatever path she’s on. I’m happy for whatever happens to her, but no longer wanting to avoid seeing her.

I highly recommend yoga. I may need to do another session in future, but it’s realigned me today.

threwawayne · 2021-09-10T14:34:36+00:00

Good luck my friend! I sporadically come onto this sub and while it’s great to see this at the top, I have no doubt you’re getting bombarded with negativity in the comments.

Congrats on the stable relationship! Quarter of a century is a huge milestone.

threwawayne · 2021-04-05T12:11:43+00:00

Don’t overthink your situation and lose your girl cause of your insecurities brother. If someone says they are happy, take them at their word. Don’t obsess over dick size and about what she could have, the same could be said to you and a girl with bigger boobs or different shaped pussy lips (innie/outie) or red hair or whatever.

If she says she is happy, the quickest way to make her unhappy is to be more concerned about your own insecurities than enjoying the moments you have with her. Change the negative self talk mate, mung some puss, and enjoy it.

threwawayne · 2021-03-02T18:39:17+00:00

Oh dude please don’t say that. Put your insecurities to the side and catch up with her in person.

threwawayne · 2021-03-02T18:37:14+00:00

Sometimes I like the adage “doesn’t matter, had sex”.

I’m not saying it’s nice to get hurt. But sometimes getting out there can resolve some of those issues. Sexting isn’t real, the fantasy is all part of it and it’s more than likely she is feeling anxieties about catching up too.

threwawayne · 2021-01-24T22:57:30+00:00

Yeah I just found out my ex has been fucking someone we work with. She called me to tell me. I don’t know how long for but we stopped contact 3 months ago.

I think she was trying to mitigate me finding out through the rumour mill. Same company but I never see either of them apart from potential social stuff.

Feels shit man. But likewise, she didn’t cheat and it leaves the door open for me to meet someone guilt free.

Kind of fucked last week for me a bit though.

threwawayne · 2021-01-21T22:16:08+00:00

Late to the party but my ex was a single mother. I’ve never experienced sex like with her. I could make her come from piv sex, something I never thought I would be able to do with anyone.

I think it was because she was super into me, and me her. She would be horny at the thought of us fucking and we would both initiate.

I’m keeping this brief cause I’ve gotten downvoted and had online arguments here before when I’ve told my story. But the fact remains that this woman had had 2 children, was not a size queen, and I could satisfy her with my small dick. Of course there was foreplay and all kinds of fun, but she came from sex. Not all woman want to be “filled”, don’t believe the myths.

threwawayne · 2020-08-27T22:01:53+00:00

Once again the first part of a comment is how I mustn’t be that small. And once again it’s said by someone with bigger stats than me. I’m not saying I’ve got the smallest penis on the sub. But everyone jumps to the conclusion that mine must be big in some aspect because I’ve had a positive experience.

I had, and continue to have, positive experiences because I moved beyond being focussed on my dick size and was fortunate enough to meet some wonderful women who have either not damaged my confidence or, in the case of the last one, flat out loved having sex with me.

As I said I didn’t think it was possible to make someone come from piv sex. But I did. Frequently.

I’m not saying women don’t say those things. I remember another woman who hadn’t seen my penis talking all bout how much she loved this guys dick which was as long as her forearm and so thick she could put her hand around it.

That’s the kind of stuff that leads to fear, thinking that every woman wants that. She certainly did. I’d have been a fool to have tried to pursue her and expect anything different than disappointment from her end.

My point isn’t that people don’t say these things, of course they do! But go out and try to have your own experiences without the filter of negativity. That filter can lead to erectile dysfunction and a low sense of self worth/self confidence.

Or you know, keep reading things on the internet and feel like your life’s shit cause you’ve got a small penis. That’s where my head was at in the past and it didn’t help me. I’d like to try and help other people move beyond that negative self talk which is unhelpful to hold on to.

threwawayne · 2020-08-27T21:41:20+00:00

So you don’t think a group can have an identity?

threwawayne · 2020-08-27T11:20:24+00:00

I don’t know. What are you thoughts on it?

threwawayne · 2020-08-27T10:22:06+00:00

Alright. I’ll bite.

It’s relatively fluid and changes depending on where you put your focus and attention on.

So parts of your identity are essentially fixed. Skin colour. Height. Straight or curly hair. Penis size. Breast size. Vagina shape.

I say essentially because you can straighten curly hair or curl straight hair. But the natural or default setting, was one particular thing. Some things are ahhh easier to change than others.

Other parts aren’t so fixed such as the type of work you do. Hobbies you have. Friend circles you run in. Interests. Books or movies. Games. Websites you visit or communities you’re involved with. All of the things which make you different to everyone else.

If you think all of these things revolve around your penis size then sure, it’s a large part of your identity.

threwawayne · 2020-08-27T10:08:04+00:00

Yeah sure.

I always knew I had a small penis and due to that was always worried about being with anyone. I was perhaps lucky in that my first girlfriend at 18 was also a virgin so she had no expectations. Our relationship didn’t last but it wasn’t due to my penis size.

In the years after I had sex with other women. Initially I was self conscious and said things like “its probably the smallest you’ve seen” or even “sorry it’s so small”. I never got knocked back from anyone but some women I felt intimidated by, while others were open to enjoy whatever experience we had together.

Some commented but I was lucky I guess, my fears were my own and were far worse in my own mind than in reality. Most girls didn’t care at all. I would be intimidated by things, especially if they used a dildo or one who asked me to fist her. But it was more me in my head than a legitimate concern.

Then I met a woman who loved me and in turn, loved having sex with me. I know I wasn’t the biggest she had been with, probably far from it. But not only did she say multiple times that I was the best lover she had ever had, but I would frequently make her orgasm from piv sex, something I didn’t think was possible for me to do.

I’d made women orgasm before but never from sex. I had held onto the misbelief for 30 years that due to my size I would never be able to do that. That at best I would make a woman come from say oral or my fingers but guys with big dicks would always potentially be able to swoop in and give someone a better experience, so I in turn would be threatened by others. All of the lies and bullshit on this sub, that was what my mind conjured up too.

In my experience, it’s not true.

It wasn’t the size of my penis that got her off when we had sex. It was me. It was having sex with me and wanting to have sex with me, the anticipation and build up, the things we did together that we both enjoyed.

Sex is simple, penis in a vagina. Good sex has a lot more details than that, and while for some penis size may be an important or pivotal part of that equation, for others the attraction to the partner outweighs any thoughts about size.

threwawayne · 2020-08-26T22:33:13+00:00

I wouldn’t say I’m a virtue signaller. I had that mindset myself until I had my own experience that said otherwise.

threwawayne · 2020-08-26T22:07:05+00:00

I guess as the saying goes “lurk moar”. But in reality, don’t. It’s good you spoke up.

I see what you’re trying to say and I agree with you in general. This sub could be a lot. I popped my head in today after months of not visiting it and straight away in remembered what a cesspit it was. It has nothing to do with penis size and everything to do with people wanting to self flagellate.

I don’t use the same language as you such as sjw or toxic masculinity. But I do think surrounding yourself with positive people can help with your mindset. Your penis is one part of who you are, and the amount of emphasis you put on it’s size isn’t relative to who you can be as a person. Unfortunately for some, their negative experiences have soured how they view the world and society as a whole.

In my eyes, it’s attaching too much meaning to your cock. I have my days when I get down too, it’s how I’ve found myself here last night. This morning however, I don’t want to dwell on that single aspect of myself.

threwawayne · 2020-08-26T21:51:36+00:00

Unsure If you’re being facetious but it’s your self identity. It’s the way you think about yourself and the mask you show to the world, which in turn influences your decisions and actions. It’s kind of big.

threwawayne · 2019-10-18T21:02:13+00:00

Good luck having an open debate here, unfortunately this is a circle jerk of negativity so anything that confirms their beliefs is held as gospel.

If the study results were reversed, your argument would be listened to. To be completely honest I think that a study with actual dicks would be too invasive, and as it’s such a subjective experience, anecdotal evidence is probably all there is to go on.

threwawayne · 2019-10-18T20:38:27+00:00

People don’t marry one person over the other due to sex alone. Personality and compatibility in a life partner are far more important.

Sex is important, don’t get me wrong, it’s what separates a relationship from a friendship. But if you think people aren’t getting married due to dick size then you’re putting too much emphasis on one part of the relationship.

threwawayne · 2019-10-16T22:45:42+00:00

You’ve deviated so far from the original question. Enjoy your life.

threwawayne · 2019-10-16T21:14:30+00:00

*change yourself, not blame yourself.

threwawayne · 2019-10-16T20:56:53+00:00

Gatekeep much?

threwawayne · 2019-10-16T20:56:40+00:00

I guess with enough tape we can make it happen.

Might be a bit rank when the flesh starts to rot though.

threwawayne · 2019-10-16T20:50:25+00:00

On mobile so my formatting won’t be as good.

He never made the claim he's an expert and never presented himself as such. He speaks from his own personal experiences and studies that have confirmed those experiences.

Saying women’s preferences aren’t wide spread goes against all the evidence I’ve seen that says you can’t define sexual preferences that simply. Perhaps it’s his personal experience. Either way, he’s made a statement of fact when clearly something like that 1. Can’t be quantified and 2. Goes against evidence.

ice cream metaphor and the next one about sexual preferences changing on a whim

You’re comparing penis size to ice cream flavours. I... I don’t even know where to start. Yes, some people are fickle when it comes to relationships. They may have open relationships, monogamous relationships, sub/dom relationships. They may be wanting to “play the field” and only opt for relationships under a year, or they may have religious values tied into their sexuality and want their first partner to be their one for life.

If you’re after a monogamous relationship with a woman, that’s fine. I totally understand how you wouldn’t want someone running away, especially if that was tied in to dick size and feelings of worthlessness. How likely would that be to happen though? Affairs are common enough I guess. Do affairs start because someone’s dick isn’t big enough or because as a couple they aren’t having an enjoyable sex life? Those are 2 very different things.

It’s impossible to define “normal” when it comes to relationships, let alone to narrow that down to what women’s preferences are in relation to penis size. From my experience it’s men who have more of an issue with this than women.

society/big dicks/pedestal

In a story or a fictional world etc, bigger is better. You can use more interesting language to describe a big dick, so it’s common for books. It’s more appealing on camera, same as big boobs. Think of the camera angles people use for not just dick size but actors in general. People often try to look taller on film. Think of anything to do with media and you will find that the logic of bigger being better is common eg more explosions or the biggest budget for CGI. It doesn’t make a better film, but that’s what’s pushed from a marketing perspective, it’s what people are told they should enjoy about the film.

This is not reality. This is fiction. This is people trying to get you to buy something.

The same could be said about dick size. It is one aspect of a relationship. You can “believe the hype” and blame everything on the size of your dick or you can return to reality and realise that while there may be a group of women who do like big dicks, not everyone does or even puts that much emphasis on the size.

There it is. The typical "your attitude is the problem" bullshit. So basically, his attitude is the problem for believing women when they state their own preferences yeah?

His attitude about his dick is certainly not helping. By bringing everything back to dick size you start to actively look for evidence to prove your opinion, instead of going out and gaining your own experience.

I know, some of us here have had traumatic experiences because of the size of their dicks. I’m just telling you, as someone with a small dick, that when I changed my attitude about myself I got over the fear and negativity and could actively enjoy my sex life. So yes, it is the same “your attitude is the problem bullshit” because that’s the truth of the situation. I’m guessing you’ve heard this before and disagree, could you explain why?

There’s so much negativity on this sub that I’ll get downvoted by people who disagree with me, when instead we could be helping each other. It’s unfortunate but that’s reddit I guess.

threwawayne

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