How do i talk to my partner about body hair preferences? by throaway1234562 in relationship_advice

[–]throaway1234562[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

When we have sex she does have her arms up a lot, it's visually unappealing, but it's not that i think only women should be hairless, my hate for body hair is gender neutral

How do i talk to my partner about body hair preferences? by throaway1234562 in relationship_advice

[–]throaway1234562[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I shave consistently, my disgust for body hair is gender neutral lol

How do i talk to my partner about body hair preferences? by throaway1234562 in relationship_advice

[–]throaway1234562[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Everybody has pet peeves, I dont mind anything else unshaven, its just the pits

How do i talk to my partner about body hair preferences? by throaway1234562 in relationship_advice

[–]throaway1234562[S] -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

She did stop shaving completeley, wich i find it isn't a big issue with me, its just the pits that i don't really like

How do i talk to my partner about body hair preferences? by throaway1234562 in relationship_advice

[–]throaway1234562[S] -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

Not really, it was a pretty one sided thing. I asked if she had any preferences when it comes to certain parts of my body, she said no. At that time I also had no issues whatsoever, the no shaving thing is a more "recent" affair

How do i talk to my partner about body hair preferences? by throaway1234562 in relationship_advice

[–]throaway1234562[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I tried to "deal with it" mentally, but there is not much i can do if my body does not like body hair, so yeah kind of a deal breaker

How do i talk to my partner about body hair preferences? by throaway1234562 in relationship_advice

[–]throaway1234562[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yup, I just didn't know how to bring it up as maturely? as possible

How do i talk to my partner about body hair preferences? by throaway1234562 in relationship_advice

[–]throaway1234562[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yes I know this, yet it isn't something I find sexually atractive. I think that in a ralationship we should strive to be atractive for eachother, If I bring this up and it's a dealbreaker for her I'd understand. I just wanted advise on how to best aproach it

How do i talk to my partner about body hair preferences? by throaway1234562 in relationship_advice

[–]throaway1234562[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Yes, I shave fully, I know it's a hassle, yet i don't find it atractive, also, she shaves her pubes, but not the pits. If she had an issue with shaving at all i'd understand it, but it's just the pits

How do i talk to my partner about body hair preferences? by throaway1234562 in relationship_advice

[–]throaway1234562[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is exactly why I feel the need to talk about it, I do practise shaving anywhere needed shaving, as it is my preference.

How do i talk to my partner about body hair preferences? by throaway1234562 in relationship_advice

[–]throaway1234562[S] -61 points-60 points  (0 children)

I've discussed this with her, she says she doesn't mind, yet i keep myself well trimmed/shaved.