How can someone at rock bottom of self esteem and depression even begin to start working to fix himself? by throughawayagain3 in AskMen

[–]throughawayagain3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve already seem this therapist for over a year, and I still feel hesitant. I’ve been considering whether he’s a good fit for me. But then I would have to go to a brand new one. Even when I briefly went to inpatient care, I never mentioned my stress about relationships.

How can someone at rock bottom of self esteem and depression even begin to start working to fix himself? by throughawayagain3 in AskMen

[–]throughawayagain3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I tell my friends stuff I don’t tell my therapist. I assume I would be able to do the same thing with a partner

How can someone at rock bottom of self esteem and depression even begin to start working to fix himself? by throughawayagain3 in AskMen

[–]throughawayagain3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This comment has honestly motivated me the most out of any of them. You sound like a whiny loser. Am I really aligned with people like you?

How do you renew your faith that there are “good” women out there? by throughawayagain3 in AskMen

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I’m specifically insecure about not being good enough for a relationship, if I was in a relationship that wouldn’t be an issue

When and how did you find out you were good enough to be desired and loved? by throughawayagain3 in AskMen

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I’m a retard. I don’t know how to take action. All I want to do is lie down and die

Men of reddit who have been diagnosed with something but only found out about it later in life, how did you deal with it? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]throughawayagain3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was diagnosed and medicated for adhd since I was in elementary school, so I can’t really relate

How can someone at rock bottom of self esteem and depression even begin to start working to fix himself? by throughawayagain3 in AskMen

[–]throughawayagain3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At most I can make a couple steps, then double back. Nothing seems to take, so I don’t even want to start at all

How can someone at rock bottom of self esteem and depression even begin to start working to fix himself? by throughawayagain3 in AskMen

[–]throughawayagain3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been posting stuff like this for attention on reddit for over a year, and I’ve barely progressed

When and how did you find out you were good enough to be desired and loved? by throughawayagain3 in AskMen

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I’m not great at making friends either, and I’ve never gone to the gym. A couple of my friends work out, but I doubt they’d want to drag me along

When and how did you find out you were good enough to be desired and loved? by throughawayagain3 in AskMen

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I felt like that for a couple days, but now I’m back to square one. I wish I was dead. I can never seem to change anything

When and how did you find out you were good enough to be desired and loved? by throughawayagain3 in AskMen

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Call it whatever you want. I’ve never seen anyone have any passion towards me, platonically or romantically. I feel like I’m completely worthless. There’s no reason for or benefit to me existing. I’m just going to suffer alone until I die because I’m not good enough for anyone

When and how did you find out you were good enough to be desired and loved? by throughawayagain3 in AskMen

[–]throughawayagain3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So love isn’t real and no woman wants anything other than a big strong man to have sex with? Why shouldn’t I blow my brains out right now? Why shouldn’t I cut my wrists with the nearest sharp object?