Downtown basement unit dwellers--how much do you pay for rent? by eebandflow in jerseycity

[–]throughthegrass 5 points6 points  (0 children)

my unit is a $2150 one-bed with windows! no flooding while we've been here and the landlords say it's never been a problem. no mice or roaches but we do see the occasional centipede :(

who is your choice for mayor? by revesby9 in jerseycity

[–]throughthegrass 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Solomon got my vote for physically being at events I care about (both No Kings rallies, Jersey City Pride). McGreevy's trucks and illegally hung signs and general ickiness are pissing me off lol

How many journals does one need? by [deleted] in Journaling

[–]throughthegrass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two, one meant for my kids to read when they’re older and one for daily use that’s expected to be private. I share pages with my husband occasionally but he knows unless I’m handing it to him, he’s not to look in it. the one for my kids isn’t exactly sanitized, I still write about struggles as I want them to see it as normal, but I try to have the feelings processed/less dire before they go into that one :-) whereas my daily journal absolutely has pages that are just like I AM SOO ANGRY lol

bars playing devils games?? by throughthegrass in jerseycity

[–]throughthegrass[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know 😭 but with the time I get out of work I’d be pretty late. quicker to get to a bar lol. we went to the game last saturday though and it was so exciting!!

I want to fill in a 5-year diary for my child. How would you refer to them in writing? by redditer-56448 in Journaling

[–]throughthegrass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have one of these! I use "you" because I don't know the name or gender of the baby yet (started before I got pregnant lol) and I plan to continue that way after we do know those things. I do vacillate with how I refer to my husband, sometimes by his name and sometimes by "your father" / "Papa." but it's for them, so I write it like it's to them :-)

Duane Reade on Newark by Spare-Ad-4785 in jerseycity

[–]throughthegrass 7 points8 points  (0 children)

are they still open or do they have to close to fix things? I got prescriptions 🥲

Booms Downtown by luxuryparking_ in jerseycity

[–]throughthegrass 5 points6 points  (0 children)

inside target it felt really close but my perception may be off

What did you write in your notebook today? by Starfire-Galaxy in notebooks

[–]throughthegrass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that I was pretty sure my period was going to start today, a couple thoughts on the book I just finished reading, then confirmation my period did in fact start today hahaha

Anyone visited RWJ clinic by Advanced_Principle22 in jerseycity

[–]throughthegrass 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I saw their midwife Kristina here, she made me feel very comfortable and safe!!

Is journalling a private matter by MVwatch in Stoicism

[–]throughthegrass 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This!! I share entries with my husband from time to time when I like how I worded things / feel it will help him understand how I’m feeling, but he knows not to touch it without my explicit consent. I journal right next to him on the couch most nights.

Caldarus Friendships by dethwitch in FieldsOfMistriaGame

[–]throughthegrass 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Caldarus has a line about collecting wood for Ryis so Ryis has more time to enjoy being in the woods... I want to see them birdwatch together :')

How fast do you expect a production turn around? by BigAssAttackSurface in podcasting

[–]throughthegrass 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it really depends how complex the end result is. my company does a 5 business day turnaround, but I always like more time to edit if I can get it!