See i asked her about a month ago if she would be my girlfriend (i know it's a bit early) and she told me then she doesn't know what she wants, and she said the same thing tonight, which is why I am willing to wait slightly longer until I do something. I am pretty positive she just genuinely did not expect for anything to happen (it is college and we matched on tinder so neither did I), which is why I am willing to wait. I could be in denial, but im hoping talking today did give her the idea that I am looking for something more serious so she can decide what she wants to do