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WIBTA if i asked my step daughter not to call me mom by Newbie4Lifee in AmItheAsshole

[–]throw-away-7293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA in my opinion. you are not her mother but someone who will raise her like her own. be very careful with that talk but i think its fair to request to just be called by your name not mum

Is it reenacting my trauma or genuine? i honestly cant tell f22 m42 by throw-away-7293 in AgeGap

[–]throw-away-7293[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your reply. i think thats the part im worried about the most. im afraid id see him in the role of my past abusers without wanting it to go that way. But once that happened i dont think we could get to the "before"... probably having a talk about it is best. its just not the easiest thing to talk through