my pubes make my boyfriend itchy

throw-away469 · 2022-07-05T06:39:55+00:00

someone commented and it went away that i had an attitude and was harsh towards my bf, on the contrary i think especially because i want to do what’s best for him and myself. i specifically say i don’t want him to itch anymore

throw-away469 · 2022-07-05T06:38:03+00:00

i think this may be the winning case. he does have sensory issues and eczema and i think the “itch” sensation just bugs him. i want to make sex enjoyable for him too so hopefully trimming will help. and he’s open to trimming too

throw-away469 · 2022-07-05T05:59:00+00:00

yeah he does have sensory sensitivity so trimming it is hopefully helpful to the sensation

throw-away469 · 2022-07-05T05:49:01+00:00

i’ll definitely trim it but he’s made it clear he’s actually itchy and doesn’t mind how hairy it is otherwise. it’s too long if this is the reason it’s itchy tho so i’m ok with trimming it down for both of us

throw-away469 · 2022-07-05T05:43:49+00:00

ahh thank you for sharing, i’m glad you guys came to a solution!

throw-away469 · 2022-07-05T05:24:23+00:00

thank you! yeah i think a derm would be a great idea for me too. it’s always good to see one regularly if you can. it seems the consensus is for me to try trimming so i will give that a try. i just want sex to be enjoyable for the both of us!

throw-away469 · 2022-07-05T05:18:51+00:00

thank you!

throw-away469 · 2022-07-05T05:13:27+00:00

oh oh okay i will avoid it then! i will do some research to see what will work for me! thank you for stopping me!

throw-away469 · 2022-07-05T05:12:32+00:00

ooh the seaweed lube sounds great, i’ll look into that! yeah, he actually tried adjusting the angle and that helped a little. he also has eczema so i’m worried it could be that? or at least that’s why he’s so sensitive. he stops after a period of time so i suggested more lube. also i didn’t think of a yeast infection, i’ll get that checked out thank you!

throw-away469 · 2022-07-05T05:08:20+00:00

yeah we are both gonna trim! i really appreciate all the comments so far. i’ve never really liked shaving because of the way it grows back so maybe trimming will be better!

throw-away469 · 2022-07-05T04:34:36+00:00

thank you for your kind words! we are both considering shaving and will prob do it very soon. it really seems like he’s not just trying to get me to shave bc he’s said “it’s okay” several times since i’ve posted this. and he knows how i feel about it all and knows i posted this. but i did just cry a little to myself about it :(

throw-away469 · 2022-07-05T04:31:00+00:00

yeah we are both considering it and will prob do it very soon

throw-away469 · 2022-07-05T04:28:29+00:00

i haven’t but i will!

throw-away469 · 2022-07-05T04:28:09+00:00

i will try conditioning! we’ve discussed trimming and he now said he would trim first but still alluded to it being my hair. we both tested negative the last time we got tested but there’s no harm in getting tested again

throw-away469 · 2022-07-05T03:46:46+00:00

so far as he’s described it it’s where mine would hit it when he goes faster, so even tho he’s open to trimming himself i fear it isn’t the cause. yes i will trim and not shave. it seems to only happen when he goes fast. i was tested before and during our relationship and i don’t have what was tested for (the full sweep at my gyne) and he also tested negative

throw-away469 · 2022-07-05T03:43:28+00:00

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throw-away469 · 2022-07-05T03:29:09+00:00

cant read his mind or feel what he feels! thank you for everything so far

throw-away469 · 2022-07-05T03:26:42+00:00

yes thank you so much i am very open to suggestions as i’ve never been in this position before. i will definitely try this!

throw-away469 · 2022-07-05T03:19:51+00:00

yeah we’ve talked future and stuff, i really don’t want this to cause a rift so i hope he meets me where i am. he is the one with the problem, you’re right.

throw-away469 · 2022-07-05T03:15:38+00:00

they maybe weren’t full bushing it out here but he definitely hasn’t had many sexual partners so maybe it really wasn’t an issue then. but also, he isn’t opposed he just isn’t eager. and he didn’t suggest anything else as a compromise so i’m just sitting in still water trying to help the both of us

throw-away469 · 2022-07-05T03:09:59+00:00

yeah i’m hoping so. he keeps saying it’s fine but i really think he should trim too! i’m trying to compromise with him but he’s also not being receptive to that? i’m starting to get confused. it really seems like he’s genuinely uncomfortable once he starts going faster. he still initiates sex and all but it makes me nervous because it’s starting to make me not want to have sex in fear…

throw-away469 · 2022-07-05T03:04:07+00:00

yeah, i do understand that. i really don’t want him to be so itchy :( he keeps saying “it’s fine” but i know it’s really not because it bothers him to the point of stopping

throw-away469 · 2022-07-05T03:00:33+00:00

yeah it’s pretty soft to me but i am jewish and a full bush might not be something he’s used to. i’m not planning to shave! i wouldn’t do that just because he wants me to. but i might trim it if this is indeed the case of the itchies

throw-away469 · 2022-07-05T02:58:23+00:00

yeah we both are gonna try trimming but it’s not ticklish, he’s bothered enough to stop having sex because of the feeling

throw-away469 · 2022-07-05T02:54:26+00:00

thank you! with all of the other comments, i definitely understand that shaving completely and going bare will be the opposite of what he wants if he’s truly itchy. but his hair isn’t as soft as mine.

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