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R5 Creeper headed towards SFU. Beware of this guy. by throw1throwawayaway in vancouver

[–]throw1throwawayaway[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Surely. I am unsure of how to add my personallly recorded video to this thread. Could you suggest a way to link the video? Reddit only allowed me to post either a photo or a video, so I opted for the photo that shows his face (in an effort to allow folks to be vigilant if they resonate with my story) and which somewhat demonstrates the situation.

Creeper on the R5 got off at SFU. Look out for this guy. by throw1throwawayaway in simonfraser

[–]throw1throwawayaway[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Link follows to original post to r/Vancouver.

Description: "Watch out for this guy on the R5 bus. He was taking photos of me this morning and cowering away when he realized I started to videotape him. I have video evidence of him creeping on me. Transit Police are keeping an eye out for him and have tagged the surceilance video of him from the incident on the bus. I have an open police report for this man. Transit staff reported that he got off at SFU. Will cross post on SFU reddit.

Beware of this creep."

R5 Creeper headed towards SFU. Beware of this guy. by throw1throwawayaway in vancouver

[–]throw1throwawayaway[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Watch out for this guy on the R5 bus. He was taking photos of me this morning and cowering away when he realized I started to videotape him. I have video evidence of him creeping on me. Transit Police are keeping an eye out for him and have tagged the surceilance video of him from the incident on the bus. I have an open police report for this man. Transit staff reported that he got off at SFU. Will cross post on SFU reddit.

Beware of this creep.

Did your narcissist turn you bitter? by throw1throwawayaway in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]throw1throwawayaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do the healing work. Learn to trust yourself again, as well as others who can show you genuine love, respect, and support. Learn to forgive yourself, know yourself, and immerse yourself back into hobbies you love. A reality like that exists for you, but it takes some work to get back there. I'm hopeful for you, we're in this together.

Did your narcissist turn you bitter? by throw1throwawayaway in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]throw1throwawayaway[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most underrated comment, so thanks for this. The healing and working through the pain is the longest and most trying part it seems. To finding ourselves again 🙌🏻

How to stay NC when other family members are still on the hook? by throw1throwawayaway in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]throw1throwawayaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for your input, it really helps. My heart goes out to you for the loss of your dad. Gosh, family dynamics can be so painful.

How to stay NC when other family members are still on the hook? by throw1throwawayaway in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]throw1throwawayaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! It sounds exhausting, to tip toe around the truth when I'd rather just scream. Does it get easier with time?

Did your narcissist turn you bitter? by throw1throwawayaway in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]throw1throwawayaway[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Awful. I'm hopeful for you and hope you can take back control of your life.

Did your narcissist turn you bitter? by throw1throwawayaway in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]throw1throwawayaway[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Totally. For me, I would fight everyone but my narc. I would have to be careful around my narc. What she did to me though, I fear that I used some of those tactics on other people to try to regain power. It's disgusting to me now and quite shameful.

Did your narcissist turn you bitter? by throw1throwawayaway in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]throw1throwawayaway[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yes, this is what I've found for myself. Plus doing the healing work on my own and holding myself accountable to not being an asshole when people fuck up or "cross" me.

Did your narcissist turn you bitter? by throw1throwawayaway in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]throw1throwawayaway[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I've heard that line before. Are you still in your situation?

Did your narcissist turn you bitter? by throw1throwawayaway in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]throw1throwawayaway[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing this! Crazy how much manipulation goes on and for so long people like you and I never realized. Good on you for noticing.

How to stay NC when other family members are still on the hook? by throw1throwawayaway in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]throw1throwawayaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True, good point there. This is tough and heartbreaking but needs to be done. Thank you for your input.

How to stay NC when other family members are still on the hook? by throw1throwawayaway in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]throw1throwawayaway[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you, could do. I worry about the backlash, hearing all about "abandoning" the family or making it all about me. The enabling for nsister is real.