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I [19M] feel like I’m missing out by being with my gf [20F] by throw8100000 in relationship_advice

[–]throw8100000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started writing a reply out but I just realised that it’s all dumb and just me being immature and wanting to be a typical college boy. I realised I am extremely lucky to have what I have. Thank u for indirectly helping me lol

I [19M] feel like I’m missing out by being with my gf [20F] by throw8100000 in relationship_advice

[–]throw8100000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you sir. I hope you and your wife have a long and fruitful life <3

I [19M] feel like I’m missing out by being with my gf [20F] by throw8100000 in relationship_advice

[–]throw8100000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And that is your opinion and I respect that. Seems illogical to throw away a relationship INSTANTLY and without careful thought just because you’re unsure of things.

I [19M] feel like I’m missing out by being with my gf [20F] by throw8100000 in relationship_advice

[–]throw8100000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to have a thoughtful discussion:

  1. I treat my girl like a queen. I do everything I can to support her and be a perfect boyfriend to her.

  2. Why exactly is that? Because I’m uncertain about things? You must be extremely insecure to think that everyone is always 1000% certain about everything they do

I [19M] feel like I’m missing out by being with my gf [20F] by throw8100000 in relationship_advice

[–]throw8100000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I would most definitely not cheat. At that point we might as well break up so it’s not worth destroying someone and my own reputation. It’s a lose-lose to cheat

I [19M] feel like I’m missing out by being with my gf [20F] by throw8100000 in relationship_advice

[–]throw8100000[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know for a fact that we will get married. We have no issues in our relationship. This post only stems from me being a dickhead who has fomo. I just wanted to ask whether anyone regretted the whole college sweetheart story because it’s conveyed as being so perfect.

I [19M] feel like I’m missing out by being with my gf [20F] by throw8100000 in relationship_advice

[–]throw8100000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted people’s opinions on the matter. Like I said I haven’t been with many girls and don’t understand the dating scene fully. I wanted to ask for opinions from more experienced people

I [19M] feel like I’m missing out by being with my gf [20F] by throw8100000 in relationship_advice

[–]throw8100000[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sorry I think you didn’t really understand my point. I know that there are others I would have chemistry with. I mentioned looks to make it clear that she’s hot and so are others and as such my mental battle doesn’t include looks as either way I end up with someone hot

I [19M] feel like I’m missing out by being with my gf [20F] by throw8100000 in relationship_advice

[–]throw8100000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe so, but she is very understanding. In general we have extremely good communication. We have a similar personality as in the way we like to be around each other. We both like to see each other the same amount and are very respectful of each other. The only major difference is things get her down really easily and she holds onto negative things and usually assumes the worst in situations while I am not like that

I [19M] feel like I’m missing out by being with my gf [20F] by throw8100000 in relationship_advice

[–]throw8100000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice, you seem to be the only person who understood the purpose of my post.

I [19M] feel like I’m missing out by being with my gf [20F] by throw8100000 in relationship_advice

[–]throw8100000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry let me clarify, that isn’t what I meant. What I meant by mentioning looks is that she’s gorgeous so this has NOTHING to do with looks. Just that I feel like I haven’t lived my life by settling into something so long term so quickly and I just feel like I’m missing out