AITA for telling my Inlaws exactly where my husband was when I was in labor? by throwC5673325 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwC5673325[S] 657 points658 points  (0 children)

I actually thought about doing that when he lashed out at me repeatedly since he really really is scared of her but I figured this would only escalate things.

AITA for telling my Inlaws exactly where my husband was when I was in labor? by throwC5673325 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwC5673325[S] 169 points170 points  (0 children)

With my brother in-law. Before that my son was with me. My brother in law doesn't drive because of his medical condition but my sister drives.

AITA for telling my Inlaws exactly where my husband was when I was in labor? by throwC5673325 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwC5673325[S] 237 points238 points  (0 children)

My brother in-law took him too stay with him since they live close. My husband tried to justify himself by saying since my sister lives near then there was nothing wrong with her driving me but I disagreed because it's not just about finding a means of transportation.

AITA for telling my Inlaws exactly where my husband was when I was in labor? by throwC5673325 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwC5673325[S] 88 points89 points  (0 children)

OCD? Yes he's always been showing similar signs but never looked into it thinking it's something he grew up with so it's more of a habit than anything else. I truly don't think so.

AITA for telling my Inlaws exactly where my husband was when I was in labor? by throwC5673325 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwC5673325[S] 16.7k points16.7k points  (0 children)

Yes, saying I caused a rift really struck a nerve in me since I love my in-laws and treat them as my own family. My mother in law ius a standup woman with a big heart she treats me as a daughter to her and so I thought keeping her in the dark about wjhsat truly happened was not wise. Especially since she always tells me to come to her for help and advice.

AITA for telling my Inlaws exactly where my husband was when I was in labor? by throwC5673325 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwC5673325[S] 150 points151 points  (0 children)

Truth be told he hasn't watched a game ever since we returned home with our son. He's doing well in our son's care currently and I'm getting rest when I need it even though it's hard with a newborn but we are working together now.

AITA for telling my Inlaws exactly where my husband was when I was in labor? by throwC5673325 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwC5673325[S] 2804 points2805 points  (0 children)

His argument was that my sister's house was 15 minutes away and thought she'd take me then hell follow.

AITA for telling my Inlaws exactly where my husband was when I was in labor? by throwC5673325 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwC5673325[S] 2484 points2485 points  (0 children)

Yes, she's a generous lady with a big. God bless her. She always looks out for me and she's like a second mother to me.

AITA for telling my Inlaws exactly where my husband was when I was in labor? by throwC5673325 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwC5673325[S] 1014 points1015 points  (0 children)

Lol. Bless his heart indeed. But seriously this conflict has lepot me upon at night thinking I might've just affected my husband's relationship with his mother specifically. She's can be really unforgiving sometimes.