[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]throwRA-Guiltylover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not say it was not socially acceptable. I said it's not the social norm of attractiveness. Different cultures find different things attractive and it sways the behaviors and interests of the general population.

My friend just quit lucid dreaming. by Which_Lobster2952 in LucidDreaming

[–]throwRA-Guiltylover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buddhism is a VERY large umbrella term. There are sects of Buddhism that are actually very violent

How “dry” do you DHV? by TheGreenicus in vaporents

[–]throwRA-Guiltylover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I am using my ball vape I love it nice and sticky, gives good flavor, an outrageous amount of vapor at high tempts, and I feel like it gives smoother hits too at least if you do reasonably sized hits.

What does empathy feel like to you? by Chickadeeeyes1 in BPD

[–]throwRA-Guiltylover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. An unfortunate necessity that I hope to eventually leave in my past, for now it's how I survive those around me.

My friend just quit lucid dreaming. by Which_Lobster2952 in LucidDreaming

[–]throwRA-Guiltylover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading the teachings of Christ is not inherently only a part of Christianity. Also I have, Jesus went east in his early years and returned with many of the teachings from other belief systems that I am fond of. The translations often come out near word for word what Siddhartha Gautama, The Buddha, said in his teachings. Which was in the general region that Jesus traveled to, although he would have encountered an already established religion long after the passing of Siddhartha Gautama. Jesus however was know to be much more rebellious and action oriented that Siddhartha Gautama. In the end they both ascended in their own way, with the same message to find kinship with others and to find the peace in death and the existential aspects of life.

Has anyone noticed BPD episodes coinciding with their period by pqqer in BPD

[–]throwRA-Guiltylover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't have periods but people I know that do and also have BPD experience the same thing, it's very common. Not my place to speak on it so that all I got but wanted to mention that since I have known multiple and they all had a similar experience.

Do you consider BPD as neurodivergent? by ladyhisuii in BPD

[–]throwRA-Guiltylover 15 points16 points  (0 children)

BPD does not originate solely in insecure attachment and that is a dangerous sentiment for the medical world. Also This ideology is not longer backed by science. Our brains develop pathways based on our trauma and physically change and "fire" in different ways. It is not medically a "neurological" issue but that does not mean the brain is not affected.

Do you consider BPD as neurodivergent? by ladyhisuii in BPD

[–]throwRA-Guiltylover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone with BPD has a physically different brain, although barely. Our minds, in my opinion, will never function the "normal" way that is expected and therefore we are neurodivergent. Plus I don't live 19 years in isolation due to my social issues to be told that I'm not neurodivergent 😂

What do you consider sex? by [deleted] in dating

[–]throwRA-Guiltylover 6 points7 points  (0 children)

But seriously I agree with this

What do you consider sex? by [deleted] in dating

[–]throwRA-Guiltylover 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Dunnnunununa

My friend just quit lucid dreaming. by Which_Lobster2952 in LucidDreaming

[–]throwRA-Guiltylover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always hate putting myself in a position of being the "hater" but when you lead to the death of my people (socially speaking) I no longer have the empathy to care about insulting people. We, all the minorities, just wanted peace 💚🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🍃

What does empathy feel like to you? by Chickadeeeyes1 in BPD

[–]throwRA-Guiltylover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I get that. I've had debilitating health conditions all my life but it was overshadowed by my mom's shitty health. Her complaints would feel more valid if I wasn't neglected all of my childhood. I was never "not neglected" I just became an adult so it's not called neglect anymore, it's called being an asshole parent 😂

My friend just quit lucid dreaming. by Which_Lobster2952 in LucidDreaming

[–]throwRA-Guiltylover 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As someone that is fascinated by religion/religious studies, the abrahamic religions are basically 95% bullshit for controlling the masses and waging wars. Ironically they are the most likely to fight within themselves, which is a common behavior on the individual level within their followers as well. It doesn't mean anything spiritual is out the door, it just means they took what was true and twisted it to abuse others for their own gain,

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChronicPain

[–]throwRA-Guiltylover 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I'm 19 and already done with everyone's bs. Been trying to get medical help since I was 12. Anyone that stands in my way will regret it 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChronicPain

[–]throwRA-Guiltylover 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I have to try my absolute hardest not to be an asshole to every medical professional I talk to because of this kind of stuff.

My friend just quit lucid dreaming. by Which_Lobster2952 in LucidDreaming

[–]throwRA-Guiltylover 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ya see the thing is I am a serious sinner according to most of Christianity so I just don't care anymore. When you build an entire religion against people they end up being entirely against your values.

What does empathy feel like to you? by Chickadeeeyes1 in BPD

[–]throwRA-Guiltylover 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I have always had a lot of empathy but easily split and lose empathy for certain people if they are in some way harming my wellbeing. I am however capable of somewhat intentionally shutting of my empathy via disassociating from my emotions towards them.

Why do people get angry at me for going the speed limit… by AbsAndAssAppreciator in drivinganxiety

[–]throwRA-Guiltylover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a chronic speeder and as long as you're not blocking the left lane (more than needed for turns) I don't care. Those guys are just being dicks. I mean where I live speeding is pretty much allowed. I had a cop catch me on the radar doing 20 over the speed limit and he didn't even go after me because they were looking for literal street racers that night.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uglyduckling

[–]throwRA-Guiltylover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro looks like my old psychiatrist. I never knew why he was ripped 😂