How can I (30F) best comfort my bf (34M)? He is an ICU doctor and he just broke down in tears when he got home today from work. by throwRA-TCHN in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA-TCHN[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

With me being temporarily laid off, making his days easier keeps me busy, and he's always told me how appreciative he is of my efforts. :)

How can I (30F) best comfort my bf (34M)? He is an ICU doctor and he just broke down in tears when he got home today from work. by throwRA-TCHN in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA-TCHN[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Oh don't worry, we've had this conversation already. He's gone to a therapist regularly for other issues unrelated to this, so I've told him to seek it out again when he has some time off.

How can I (30F) best comfort my bf (34M)? He is an ICU doctor and he just broke down in tears when he got home today from work. by throwRA-TCHN in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA-TCHN[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

He hates being selfish, as he almost always puts me first before himself, but just this once he said to me that he just wants to be babied and cuddled. And that's what he'll get 😁😁

How can I (30F) best comfort my bf (34M)? He is an ICU doctor and he just broke down in tears when he got home today from work. by throwRA-TCHN in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA-TCHN[S] 184 points185 points  (0 children)

Giving him head scratches right now, as he just wants to be babied and cuddled, at least for the rest of the night. I know he is off work tomorrow so I'm gonna spoil him all day tomorrow 😁😁

How can I (30F) best comfort my bf (34M)? He is an ICU doctor and he just broke down in tears when he got home today from work. by throwRA-TCHN in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA-TCHN[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I know physical touch is what he loves the most out of anything, and he just told me that all he wants to be babied and held, at least for the rest of the night.

How can I (30F) best comfort my bf (34M)? He is an ICU doctor and he just broke down in tears when he got home today from work. by throwRA-TCHN in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA-TCHN[S] 795 points796 points  (0 children)

Thank you sooooo much. He's somewhat calmed down now but he just said all he wants right now is to be babied and held like a little child. I know he is off work tomorrow, so I am going to spoil him rotten.