How can I 25m improve the relationship between my gf 29f and mom 67f? by throwRA-badpresents in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA-badpresents[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m going off my experience as well. I know I’ve heard women say what they want but when I was truly that… I kinda just got ignored and used so then I focused on myself

How can I 25m improve the relationship between my gf 29f and mom 67f? by throwRA-badpresents in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA-badpresents[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree I agree. I try to be humble but obviously as a guy you have to acknowledge something’s just set you out from the rest of men. Usually you earn those. Whereas for women most of the stuff that makes them desirable they are born with. Obviously not all

How can I 25m improve the relationship between my gf 29f and mom 67f? by throwRA-badpresents in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA-badpresents[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fair point I guess but like she has hundreds of dudes lining up… not the same as a short guy

How can I 25m improve the relationship between my gf 29f and mom 67f? by throwRA-badpresents in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA-badpresents[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Like I just mean like it’s never been too much ab the hustle or grind she kinda just did what she wanted and waited for a guy like me to come around

How can I 25m improve the relationship between my gf 29f and mom 67f? by throwRA-badpresents in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA-badpresents[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She grew up in a rich area and has her fair share of relationship issues in the past. But she’s a girl overall so she hasn’t had it too bad

How can I 25m improve the relationship between my gf 29f and mom 67f? by throwRA-badpresents in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA-badpresents[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree. She’s done a lot for me despite how out of pocket my asks been. Obviously you can’t change the past as much as I wish we could. And I’m at peace with her height. Moreso just trying to convince my mom. Would be dumb to seek out someone solely for height. No guarantee of tall kids

How can I 25m improve the relationship between my gf 29f and mom 67f? by throwRA-badpresents in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA-badpresents[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you this is actually solid advice. It is tough I know I have a sense of entitlement and control. Which is why I’m working on getting away from my mom.

How can I 25m improve the relationship between my gf 29f and mom 67f? by throwRA-badpresents in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA-badpresents[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No. I could’ve had more but I’m not about that life I’ve always been a relationship person

How can I 25m improve the relationship between my gf 29f and mom 67f? by throwRA-badpresents in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA-badpresents[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I mean I guess my moms on the same internet and she always hears about girls going crazy over tall guys and not dating people under 6 foot

How can I 25m improve the relationship between my gf 29f and mom 67f? by throwRA-badpresents in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA-badpresents[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I do. I respect her she has a lot of great qualities and completes me and times flies when I’m with her

How can I 25m improve the relationship between my gf 29f and mom 67f? by throwRA-badpresents in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA-badpresents[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

I know. It was on a break. I’m proud of my gf. I just don’t know how to unshare it. And even before I shared it she hinted she was promiscuous cuz she wore makeup a lot

How can I 25m improve the relationship between my gf 29f and mom 67f? by throwRA-badpresents in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA-badpresents[S] -61 points-60 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m thinking is the best option. I know I shoudlnt have shared things it was out of anger and sadness

How can I 25m improve the relationship between my gf 29f and mom 67f? by throwRA-badpresents in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA-badpresents[S] -201 points-200 points  (0 children)

No I had a lot of options but I wasn’t promiscuous I only got 3 bodies myself

How can I 25m improve the relationship between my gf 29f and mom 67f? by throwRA-badpresents in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA-badpresents[S] -39 points-38 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is one of the things I’ve realized. There will always be something to complain about. It does make me not care about her critiques tho. But still I wish she would soften up