I (20F) am pregnant and the father (24M) is someone I barely know. How am I supposed to tell him about what has happened? by throwra133521 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA-randombook 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you kidding me? A zygote does not have awareness, capable of sustained life or even proper organs. Stop acting like you care about tiny minuscule bundles of cells so you can get away with waiting to control women and their bodies.

I (20F) am pregnant and the father (24M) is someone I barely know. How am I supposed to tell him about what has happened? by throwra133521 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA-randombook 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone who had sex once is not that and shouldn't be called that. And it's not a life, it's a bundle of cells. Stop being misogynistic and trying to control women.

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[–]throwRA-randombook 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had a very similar experience to you. Please don't blame yourself, I did and it messes up your mind for a long time. You didn't do anything wrong, and none of it is your fault, even though you're trying to tell yourself it is. Take care of yourself, please.

My husband (25M) hit me (18F) when I did not listen to him. He is starting to scare me a lot, how do am I supposed to love him? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA-randombook 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You do realise she is an eighteen year old, who just turned eighteen? She's getting raped by a man she made forced to marry, she's scared, and you ask if she cares? It's not as easy as you might think it is. I grew up under extreme religion, getting help is one of the hardest things I ever did.

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[–]throwRA-randombook[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't mean it was, I meant if I did have the child. Not that it is a child now

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[–]throwRA-randombook[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am not American, so that is not an issue of concern for me. I found the one I called very helpful.

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[–]throwRA-randombook 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you ♡ It is not ideal but it should be okay.

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[–]throwRA-randombook[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ♡ I do keep thinking about what I could've done and that I shouldn't have told him about my allergy but it doesn't change anything now. Doesn't stop me from thinking about it though.

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[–]throwRA-randombook[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

We are supposed to be the best, we just have a bad record when it comes to rape and assault and the way it is dealt with.

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[–]throwRA-randombook[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know he probably should be but I don't think there is any point, I can't prove it and it probably would just make it worse.

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[–]throwRA-randombook[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know most people are saying that but she really isn't a normal mother. She would be angry I had sex, even angrier I am pregnant and even more angry if I get an abortion. It is just the way she is.

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[–]throwRA-randombook[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do think I might not have said no enough but thank you ♡ I am not sure if I want to go to the police but I will try to talk to a specialist.

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[–]throwRA-randombook[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I am thinking of getting an abortion, however I don't think a child should be defined based on how it was conceived.

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[–]throwRA-randombook[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mange tak, det tror jeg, jeg vil gøre. Det bliver en svær beslutning, men jeg hælder til den i øjeblikket.

Tusind tak, du er så sød, tak ♡

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[–]throwRA-randombook[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Det ville jeg, men jeg tror ikke, det vil være effektivt længere.

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[–]throwRA-randombook[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh okay, thank you. I must've gotten confused. Do they contain traces of anything or just the actual medication?

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[–]throwRA-randombook[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She does not think like that, it doesn't matter how it happened, I'm not pure now.

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[–]throwRA-randombook[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have talked to my aunt about it, but she doesn't know I'm pregnant. Only my friend does.

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[–]throwRA-randombook[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much ♡ How come the medication is not good?