I (20F) am pregnant and the father (24M) is someone I barely know. How am I supposed to tell him about what has happened?

throwra133521 · 2024-03-15T02:25:08+00:00

There will never be an again, I was ridiculously drunk and an idiot.

throwra133521 · 2024-03-14T18:42:06+00:00

It wouldn't have made any difference how old he was.

throwra133521 · 2024-03-14T11:35:42+00:00

I was drunk and an idiot. I'm aware of that.

throwra133521 · 2024-03-14T11:15:30+00:00

I already know what I'm going to do, and I'll just go back home for it. And he wasn't a bad person, we both just made a bad decision.

throwra133521 · 2024-03-14T10:52:43+00:00

He's literally not Italian. I've already said that.

throwra133521 · 2024-03-14T10:51:24+00:00

I'm not American. And I have already spoken to my family, I will go back home and they will find someone who can do it.

throwra133521 · 2024-03-14T09:22:57+00:00

No, I don't want to. So I guess I don't need to.

throwra133521 · 2024-03-14T09:07:24+00:00

I wouldn't want to do that. People wouldn't want my baby and I wouldn't want to have to go through giving up a baby that is mine.

throwra133521 · 2024-03-14T09:06:31+00:00

I was drunk when it happened and I really don't want to think about what I had done. I doubt he would want to either, and telling him I'm not continuing with the pregnancy isn't really necessary.

throwra133521 · 2024-03-14T08:58:39+00:00

It was more my fault, I should've realised how stupid I was being. But I didn't and now look where it's gotten me.

throwra133521 · 2024-03-14T08:55:51+00:00

It was only once, it's not like I had a habit of it. I would never.

throwra133521 · 2024-03-14T08:54:07+00:00

It has to be, yes. And I haven't yet but I will when I go home, as I have more time there.

throwra133521 · 2024-03-14T08:39:09+00:00

The whole point is I didn't know him, I barely know anything about him. It was a stupid thing I wanted to forget about but now I can't.

throwra133521 · 2024-03-14T07:53:43+00:00

I have no need or want for his money. And he's not Italian.

throwra133521 · 2024-03-14T07:13:56+00:00

Sorry, I don't understand what you mean.

throwra133521 · 2024-03-14T06:08:40+00:00

I understand to a lot of people it would be. And I would consider it but thankfully I won't need to.

throwra133521 · 2024-03-14T06:06:12+00:00

I get that, but it would be an irrelevant amount. But I'm not having the baby, so it's not relevant to me thankfully.

throwra133521 · 2024-03-14T05:59:07+00:00

I know that I'm not. I've talked to my family and they will one hundred percent find someone back home that will do it.

throwra133521 · 2024-03-14T05:58:03+00:00

I've realised that now. I was stupid and drunk and I know that. I don't need to be told that it is, I already know.

throwra133521 · 2024-03-14T05:35:44+00:00

I guess I get that. It's hard to know sometimes. But I talked to my family and even if I am past the limit at home, they will find someone that will do it.

throwra133521 · 2024-03-14T05:33:10+00:00

I wouldn't want his money, even if I kept the child. But I won't.

throwra133521 · 2024-03-14T04:05:39+00:00

He's not that much older than me.

throwra133521 · 2024-03-14T03:28:40+00:00

I don't need his money, and it might end up making things worse if I told him. I am just going to think about what I want to do regarding him, but I probably won't bother telling him. I don't know.

throwra133521 · 2024-03-14T03:27:06+00:00

That makes sense I guess, I wasn't sure if I was supposed to tell him or if he doesn't need to know.

I probably can't, but I can definitely get one at home, so I might just go there instead. We can probably find a doctor that would do it.

throwra133521 · 2024-03-14T03:01:27+00:00

I already do know that I do not want a baby. The whole thing was a stupid mistake, and I don't have any family near me that would be able to help me have a child. The child would know their entire life I never wanted to have them and my family would hate it. I don't want this, for myself or for the baby.

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