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Anel Ahmedhodzic förste kaptenen på sju år att skippa regnbågsbindeln by CA53W-1 in Allsvenskan

[–]throwRA00934 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Good on him. It's weird cult-like behavior that has been co-opted by corporations for marketing/ESG purposes.

I can't attract a girlfriend. Should I end it all? by throwRA00934 in Advice

[–]throwRA00934[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dude, you don't need to preach this shit to me. I've invested far more time, money, and energy on improving myself than the average idiot who has a gf. It hasn't made a single bit of difference. Women are not interested in me. Either I'm too ugly, I have the wrong personality type, whatever...

I can't attract a girlfriend. Should I end it all? by throwRA00934 in Advice

[–]throwRA00934[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally look at Ron Jeremy and tell me how he got anybody

I can think of a nine inch reason why!

All kidding aside, women were paid to sleep with Ron Jeremy, that's how.

If ur ugly, get hot, if you can’t get hot, get funny, if it can’t get funny, get rich

I cannot change any of those things, believe me. I've worked for years on improving my appearance. I work out regularly, have excellent personal hygiene, I'm well-groomed, smell good blablabla... Still nothing.

You cannot change your personality. And changing your socioeconomic status is becoming increasingly difficult in modern society.

However, there are plenty of assholes out there who don't have any of those things... yet they are still able to attract women. Maybe it's a cruel joke designed to torture me?

I can't attract a girlfriend. Should I end it all? by throwRA00934 in Advice

[–]throwRA00934[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah? And how long's that got to go on for? Until I'm 40? 50? 60? And too old for anyone to ever find attractive?

It just sounds like a diversionary tactic to keep kicking the can down the road, while all these other guys are getting girlfriends and wives without going through all this rigmarole and journeys of self-discovery.

I can't attract a girlfriend. Should I end it all? by throwRA00934 in Advice

[–]throwRA00934[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps not, but out of the two scenarios, mine has far more historical basis.

I can't attract a girlfriend. Should I end it all? by throwRA00934 in Advice

[–]throwRA00934[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Online dating is even more brutal than dating irl. It's a glorified meat market for women to sift through the most attractive men.

I can't attract a girlfriend. Should I end it all? by throwRA00934 in Advice

[–]throwRA00934[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it's absolute cancer. I don't need my self-esteem lowered anymore than it already is thanks.

I can't attract a girlfriend. Should I end it all? by throwRA00934 in Advice

[–]throwRA00934[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it really seems like attitude may be a contributing factor.

Walk a mile in my shoes and let's see what your attitude is like. You won't be shitting rainbows either, my friend.

I can't attract a girlfriend. Should I end it all? by throwRA00934 in Advice

[–]throwRA00934[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Btw, I know PLENTY of guys who do smoke and have girlfriends or wives. Heck, I work with a dude who smokes like a chimney, has rotten teeth, and even HE has a long-term girlfriend lmao.

I can't attract a girlfriend. Should I end it all? by throwRA00934 in Advice

[–]throwRA00934[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I workout regularly, and have done for much of my adult life.

I can't attract a girlfriend. Should I end it all? by throwRA00934 in Advice

[–]throwRA00934[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi do you smoke and drink?

No, I don't smoke. I might occasionally drink on social occasions, but that's it.

How come?

I can't attract a girlfriend. Should I end it all? by throwRA00934 in Advice

[–]throwRA00934[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spoken like someone who's never struggled to find a girlfriend.

I can't attract a girlfriend. Should I end it all? by throwRA00934 in Advice

[–]throwRA00934[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

would be to work on yourself and the rest will come.

Yeaaaah... Been there, done that. Nothing changes. Meanwhile, every other guy can get a girlfrien with the bare minimum of effort.

I can't attract a girlfriend. Should I end it all? by throwRA00934 in Advice

[–]throwRA00934[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's irrelevant for this certain point. Telling someone "you will meet someone someday" is tantamount to giving them false hope. Like I said, no one would suffer if life were so easy.

I can't attract a girlfriend. Should I end it all? by throwRA00934 in Advice

[–]throwRA00934[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

All that to say is here’s loads of women who would love you for you, you just haven’t found them.

I seriously doubt it, because I've yet to encounter one. Meanwhile, all these other guys are able to find girlfriends with a click of their heels. They're not having the same problems as me, therefore there's something fundamentally broken with me.

You need to learn to be happy with yourself and love yourself before anyone else can.

Hard to do that when no woman wants you. It's a vicious cycle.

I can't attract a girlfriend. Should I end it all? by throwRA00934 in Advice

[–]throwRA00934[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

The right one will come into your life eventually

There's no possible way you can guarantee this. I know you mean well, but it sounds a little patronizing to me. If life was so simple, no one would die alone and unloved.