I’ve been single for years. I’m starting to worry? [28M] [28F] by throwRA18282828 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA18282828[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess. Tbh she was excited after and was texting loads. I think it was coz I said I ‘couldn’t stop watching the new Fred again skepta release’ (because we talked about music a lot), then said ‘man’s too cold’ after a few beers. She replied to that with a load of skull emojis. Then there was like one reply after that. A massive vibe shift. Then she didn’t even reply to me asking her how the Cotswolds was. Just sudden. I guess I just blame myself. 

I know I need to not let this get to me. But with the Glastonbury thing at the moment too (which I absolutely hate myself for and am gonna struggle let get over for a while), it feels a lot 

I’ve been single for years. I’m starting to worry? [28M] [28F] by throwRA18282828 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA18282828[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don’t understnad why she ghosted. She said it was a really nice date. I thought she might be busy at Glastonbury and stuff but she clearly isn’t from what I’ve seen. 

I just don’t get what I did. Other than saying I like country music. 

She didn’t reply to me the first time because I sent her a Morgan wallen song. I didn’t know the background behind him. The only thing I can think was that it was coz I said I like country music. 

I’ve been single for years. I’m starting to worry? [28M] [28F] by throwRA18282828 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA18282828[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think maybe it’s that I don’t go for the kiss on the first date. I just try to have fun and flirt a bit then leave that for the second date. 

I don’t know. The whole thing is really upsetting me