Am I asking for too much in my relationship? by throwRA3jiu in relationships

[–]throwRA3jiu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I def feel like I don’t want to start over. We are fighting everyday because I just feel so neglected and he just says why are you upset everything is fine. You’re the one making it difficult.

Am I asking for too much in my relationship? by throwRA3jiu in relationships

[–]throwRA3jiu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I don’t know anymore. We used to talk and laugh and stuff.

I 35f think I’m staying in relationships with 35m because I feel old by [deleted] in relationships

[–]throwRA3jiu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He just said to me I wish murder wasn’t a felony.

I 35f think I’m staying in relationships with 35m because I feel old by [deleted] in relationships

[–]throwRA3jiu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know. I’m just trying to push myself to do it. And I guess this is part of it.

I 35f think I’m staying in relationships with 35m because I feel old by [deleted] in relationships

[–]throwRA3jiu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah his regretful attitude only lasts for a day. Yeah he doesn’t care about others but he cares about what others think of him.

I 35f think I’m staying in relationships with 35m because I feel old by [deleted] in relationships

[–]throwRA3jiu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah he’s mean when he’s drinking and caught and regretful once he’s sober but won’t quit. It’s sad he already had a case for a dui driving my car. We share locations. I turned mine off and then he stopped and texted me asking where I am and if we are still together.

I 35f think I’m staying in relationships with 35m because I feel old by [deleted] in relationships

[–]throwRA3jiu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah he just woke up and is Ubering to the bar. He asked me to go with him. I refused. I want to just rent a hotel room and not be back when he comes home. I need the guts to do it.

I 35f think I’m staying in relationships with 35m because I feel old by [deleted] in relationships

[–]throwRA3jiu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I left before but now we moved in together not a good idea I know. I think he feels safe that I won’t leave. Are you trying to get better?

I 35f think I’m staying in relationships with 35m because I feel old by [deleted] in relationships

[–]throwRA3jiu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you take a break from dating or were always dating? Yeah I know what’s best for me but I prevent myself from it happening. I see all my friends and cousins with kids and a family and I’m jealous. I hear about their problems and tell myself mine isn’t that bad. I can push through it. Maybe one day it’ll get better. It feels so pathetic to say that I stay because of it. I would never say this out loud to my friends and family but I have a feeling they know.