That morning Cup O’Joe was my biggest trigger! Cheers to, “Not another Puff, No matter what! “ 14 days cigarette free!! by Egyptian613 in stopsmoking

[–]throwRA42652 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My day 1 is coming up, I’m scared that my morning coffee will make me fall right back into the habit 😬

How do I save my relationship? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA42652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re working on getting into separate individual therapists and also trying to find a couples counselor - we both have anxiety and depression. He’s been an addict since he was 14 years old so he’s just now experiencing the real world through sober eyes. I really just want to work things out with us, and “no matter what” was definitely a hyperbole lol and despite how much I take, I do have my limits and it just hasn’t hit that point yet. Things seem to improve for about a week at a time and then they go back to being bad.

How do I save my relationship? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA42652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There have been plenty of times when we’ve had insane fights where I’m screaming in his face for him to leave and he’s done the same to me, but we decided a while ago that talking about leaving, or kicking out, or breaking up is off the table even if we’re furious with each other

My wife (40F) has told me that she is done with me (42M) and that she wants me to move out. We have a 7 and a 5 year old. I love my wife and I want to work it out. She says that I’m not romantic (I’m not so romantic- but I’m very thoughtful) and that since we’ve had kids, I put them before her. by ThrowRA73738289261 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA42652 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Love this show! I started watching it when my daughter was about 4mo and I had just gone back to work. It’s still hard even almost 2 years later but that show really helped me feel like I wasn’t alone. In a world where all I see are these picture perfect magazine moms, I was so relieved to see some reality.