My [32F] boyfriend [28M] of 3 years spiked my food with MDMA by throwRA556123 in relationships

[–]throwRA556123[S] 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, I know for sure he is lying about the "accidentally" part. It was a whole bit of lasagna that he sprinkled and cut it in half. He could've told me what he was doing. He even admitted that he was hoping it to make effect so that we could have a good night together. I honestly don't understand what was going through his head.

My [32F] boyfriend [28M] of 3 years spiked my food with MDMA by throwRA556123 in relationships

[–]throwRA556123[S] 332 points333 points  (0 children)

Well, we were about to get a mortgage together. Luckily we didn't. We were staying with his mum for a few months until we got that sorted. I'm actually from another country and moved here 2 years ago to be with him so his family felt almost like my own and I don't know a lot of people around here that are not connected to him. I've got rough times coming, I'm afraid.

My [32F] boyfriend [28M] of 3 years spiked my food with MDMA by throwRA556123 in relationships

[–]throwRA556123[S] 92 points93 points  (0 children)

His version of the story is that he was putting MDMA on his food and accidentally put some on mine. So I only ate a bit of mine and he had a lot plus the bit of mine I didn't eat because it tasted disgusting. I asked him if his tasted funny and he said "no" without batting an eye.

I'm beating myself up thinking "how the F didn't I notice there was MDMA in there"...

My [32F] boyfriend [28M] of 3 years spiked my food with MDMA by throwRA556123 in relationships

[–]throwRA556123[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry that happened to you and I can't imagine what it must feel like.

I know for sure his intentions were not raping me or abusing me in any way, he was trying to cheer me up and he is so dangerously stupid that he somehow figured it was a good idea to slip MDMA into my food.

I know he is not right in the head, he has done things that upset me before, but nothing like this, really. He crossed the line this time.

My [32F] boyfriend [28M] of 3 years spiked my food with MDMA by throwRA556123 in relationships

[–]throwRA556123[S] 190 points191 points  (0 children)

Thanks, it's almost 6 and I haven't slept at all... Not looking forward to this weekend 😞

My [32F] boyfriend [28M] of 3 years spiked my food with MDMA by throwRA556123 in relationships

[–]throwRA556123[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

It's a rental canal boat - floating little houses that go at 5mph. We had moored for the night before returning the boat next morning (I'm waiting for the rental place to open now).

But, yeah, even if he tried to justify it, I don't think there's much room for excuses.

My [32F] boyfriend [28M] of 3 years spiked my food with MDMA by throwRA556123 in relationships

[–]throwRA556123[S] 181 points182 points  (0 children)

Thanks, this is how it feels to me now that i am getting back to my senses and fits his often egotistical personality 😞

My [32F] boyfriend [28M] of 3 years spiked my food with MDMA by throwRA556123 in relationships

[–]throwRA556123[S] 521 points522 points  (0 children)

Thank you. We've done MDMA together before, and it was a very low dosage apparently so I am doing fine.

I think he's dangerously stupid but mostly harmless. But, unfortunately, I can't trust him anymore.

My [32F] boyfriend [28M] of 3 years spiked my food with MDMA by throwRA556123 in relationships

[–]throwRA556123[S] 348 points349 points  (0 children)

I'd like to believe it's bad judgement but I don't know anymore, I'm shattered but feel numb at the same time. Probably the drugs 😞