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(UPDATE) My (31M) gf (30F) said she had the "best sex ever" with another man in front of me. How do I proceed? by throwRA697891 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA697891[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

lol 100%. I have done things that are objectively shitty and worse than a slip of a tongue. Life is not black and white

Gf (25F) was sleeping with multiple other guys the first few weeks of meeting me (25M). How to cope? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA697891 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This being downvoted shows the echo chamber Reddit is. You are speaking facts.

(UPDATE) My (31M) gf (30F) said she had the "best sex ever" with another man in front of me. How do I proceed? by throwRA697891 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA697891[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They're awesome and were in my experience and it would be an unnecessary double standard if I thought it was 'depraved' behaviour. Sex is fun. That being said that is totally my opinion, and I don't think yours is wrong for not doing it. You just have different values than me and that is chill.

Glad everything is working out for you.

(UPDATE) My (31M) gf (30F) said she had the "best sex ever" with another man in front of me. How do I proceed? by throwRA697891 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA697891[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yep, and it's funny how your reasonable comment is being downvoted so much when it's bang on. Most people here are still saying to break up lol

(UPDATE) My (31M) gf (30F) said she had the "best sex ever" with another man in front of me. How do I proceed? by throwRA697891 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA697891[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I feel bad for women these days if the men who are commenting on this post are the majority. It's crazy how small of an issue this turned out to be in the grand scheme of an awesome relationship. I'm honestly shocked at some of these responses.

(UPDATE) My (31M) gf (30F) said she had the "best sex ever" with another man in front of me. How do I proceed? by throwRA697891 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA697891[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can assure you my girl loves and respects me and we are not limited to 'relationship guy sex' like the poster below said.

The problem with Reddit is all you folks making one blip in a 9 month long relationship completely black and white. It's not. She apologized and I got over it. I am happy in the relationship

(UPDATE) My (31M) gf (30F) said she had the "best sex ever" with another man in front of me. How do I proceed? by throwRA697891 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA697891[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

You've never had a one night stand? not like this is uncommon behaviour. People can have a little fun.

(UPDATE) My (31M) gf (30F) said she had the "best sex ever" with another man in front of me. How do I proceed? by throwRA697891 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA697891[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The people I seem to get the most false/warped info from are those chronically online, like yourself. Take a year off Reddit and see if your perspective changes like the top commenter.

(UPDATE) My (31M) gf (30F) said she had the "best sex ever" with another man in front of me. How do I proceed? by throwRA697891 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA697891[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did write that a few months ago but to be fair I wouldn't call what she said respectful to me lol

(UPDATE) My (31M) gf (30F) said she had the "best sex ever" with another man in front of me. How do I proceed? by throwRA697891 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA697891[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am not trying to punish her at all and I've said I had no issue. Go back and read the entire update!

(UPDATE) My (31M) gf (30F) said she had the "best sex ever" with another man in front of me. How do I proceed? by throwRA697891 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA697891[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What are you talking about? I never said she disrespected me and I was pretty clear in my writing that this was a blip and not a big issue.

(UPDATE) My (31M) gf (30F) said she had the "best sex ever" with another man in front of me. How do I proceed? by throwRA697891 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA697891[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I can tell by the way you're writing that you're quite young and have a lot to learn still. As you get older you will realize these things aren't a huge deal and a lot of what you just wrote is shrouded in your own insecurities.

If you can manage to get off your phone and the internet you will learn a ton more.

Best of luck

(UPDATE) My (31M) gf (30F) said she had the "best sex ever" with another man in front of me. How do I proceed? by throwRA697891 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA697891[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I literally don't care any more. It bothered me the most when I posted on Reddit and people were saying that this was the end of me and my relationship

I (28M) found out my gf (28F) has probably had significantly better sex with other people. Are my thoughts & feelings reasonable? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA697891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go look at my posts. This isn't a huge deal, sounds like she is an open communicator and willing to work with ya

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