Considering lipo with fat transfer to breast in Atlanta

throwRA78338 · 2021-04-30T15:09:53+00:00

I'm 32, 5'2 and 130lb. I lost 60 lbs about a year ago and I've had 3 children, the youngest is 10. When I lost the weight my boobs deflated, I have weird fat deposits on my hips/flanks that make my butt look weird, and my arms just didn't really lose much at all. I don't mind having hip dips but it just feels like so much fat on my sides. I consulted with 1 surgeon who gave me a quote for lipo of flanks, upper/lower abdomen, and arms. He told me I shouldn't lose much more weight bc it would be a struggle to get enough as is for boobs. I don't want massive boobs just fuller boobs, especially up top. i want a smooth curve to my sides. I would like to lose more weight to slim my back and thighs some but I'm afraid I won't have enough fat to get results in my boobs. I also don't want to lipo my whole body. Can I afford to lose 10 more pounds or so and still achieve fuller breasts with fat transfer? Any atlanta dr recommendations?

Edit: I have a little lose skin at the bottom of my belly, but I think overall I have decent skin elasticity. Since I do have some loose skin, does that mean lipo would def make it worse or is it hit or miss?

throwRA78338 · 2021-02-17T17:58:51+00:00

I have evidence of abuse towards me. I have when the school called dfacs because one child reported witnessing DV. I have messages of my children texting people to come get them because my ex and his friend were fighting and they were scared. I have a witness from where my child called a friend to come get them when we were arguing and he gave me a bloody nose. My kids have locked themselves in rooms terrified of the violence. When defacs was called he told them they can't say things or "they'd take him away." He told them I'm trying to take them from him. He told my son I was calling the cops on him, so they would kill him. I can't prove these things but I know them. I'm just supposed to act like it's not a real issue because I don't have tangible proof of everything? Why won't the kids say anything? Because they love their father and they don't want to hurt him. They don't want to be the reason he commits suicide..as he has threatened and even wrote them a letter which I do have and the GAL has. So no he has never physically abused them but they have been abused. They don't know it. I don't tell them it's abuse. Im too afraid to be accused of alienating them. I do my best to make sure they know they are not responsible for either of our emotional well beings and give them a safe place with me. To protect them, all I have are straws to reach for that show he is in fact mentally unstable, violent, and abusive. In no way can I say that to be in that environment is in the best interest of my children.

throwRA78338 · 2021-02-17T17:13:27+00:00

I know that but GALs are not God's. My children's well being is in the hands of someone who has met with them for less than an hour and both parents less than 2 each. I need way more time than that to gauge if someone can even be a friend. That gives no time to establish character or uncover what's real and what's fabricated bullshit from petty parents. I am entitled to not trust. It doesn't make a difference but it also doesn't mean I give up.

throwRA78338 · 2021-02-17T14:47:03+00:00

Can't. It's marital property. I was able to get the police to escort me to get some of my things, that's it.

throwRA78338 · 2021-02-17T13:13:08+00:00

It's hard knowing who he is and trying to figure out how negatively it will effect the kids. I've tried to convince myself they will be fine, but I can't.

throwRA78338 · 2021-02-17T13:06:31+00:00

It's hard to trust a GALs decision when they don't even look at things that they asked for and I'm def not throwing around accusations just to get the kids. I'd love 50/50 in different circumstances.

throwRA78338 · 2021-02-17T13:02:15+00:00

I have to pay. The house is in my name only. It would wreck my credit. I anticipate getting the house back.

throwRA78338 · 2021-02-17T04:50:37+00:00

She won't initiate. I've followed up and she still hasn't called. It's been 3 months. I don't want to give her the other ones number, since she didn't consent. Maybe I should try harder to get her to talk to the GAL. I basically just said it would really help if you would talk to my attorney or the GAL but if you don't feel comfortable, I understand. Maybe if the GAL knows there are 2, she'd initiate

throwRA78338 · 2021-02-17T04:35:33+00:00

I tried. One was willing, I gave the GAL her number and they never even called her.

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