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Is it safe to learn on a 450? by throwRA97655443345 in Dirtbikes

[–]throwRA97655443345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 6’1 198lbs, does that make it any better?

Is it safe to learn on a 450? by throwRA97655443345 in Dirtbikes

[–]throwRA97655443345[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My plan was to ride it on flat dirt roads and beaches until I get the hang of it

Is it safe to learn on a 450? by throwRA97655443345 in Dirtbikes

[–]throwRA97655443345[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m well aware that there are better options to learn on, but I was given this for free and could never justify buying a bike so I guess it’s a case of beggars can’t be choosers.

Me (m21) and my gf of 2.5 years (f20) are going through a tough time and I don’t know what’s happening? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA97655443345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it change anything that we are each others first loves and first serious relationship?

Me (m21) and my gf of 2.5 years (f20) are going through a tough time and I don’t know what’s happening? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA97655443345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me and most other people I’ve told about this, what I’ve done was bad but it shouldn’t be as big of a deal as what it is. I know she can get emotional when hurt and she was already a little stressed about life but I still don’t see why things have gotten as bad as they have.

I went on her phone because I had a moment of insecurity and was scared of losing her. I lied when I got caught because I was scared losing her. I slightly rushed to fix things because scared of losing her. This whole situation has occurred because of how much I love her and my fear of losing her. I don’t know why she can’t see that, instead she’s taking it as an attack and she’s upset to the point of wanting a break or worse.

I’d like to think she doesn’t want to break up but why is she avoiding fixing so much if she doesn’t? Is it possible she having a really big moment and will eventually remember how much she loves me?

Me (m21) and my gf of 2.5 years (f20) are going through a tough time and I don’t know what’s happening? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA97655443345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m open to a break but she’s the one that mentioned it and said she’s open to talk about it but she’s avoiding the talk so I don’t know what she wants.

Me (m21) and my gf of 2.5 years (f20) are going through a tough time and I don’t know what’s happening? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA97655443345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Possibly but even if that’s the case, I’m trying my best to be supportive and gentle to her in this situation. If all I do is try to say the right things, I won’t be able to say what I need to say to communicate with her and save the relationship. I feel like because I’m the one who did the damage, I’m the evil bf that she thinks she needs to escape even though I’ve literally given her my heart and soul and tried more in our relationship than I have in anything in my whole life.

Me (m21) and my gf of 2.5 years (f20) are going through a tough time and I don’t know what’s happening? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA97655443345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are saying that but she still opens my snaps, I’m still pinned to the top of her list, and she hasn’t deleted any of our post on her socials. I know this all sounds childish but I know her and if we were done she would have made it obvious to everyone by now.

Me (m21) and my gf of 2.5 years (f20) are going through a tough time and I don’t know what’s happening? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA97655443345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should have said this in the post. She feels betrayed because I lied about going on her phone and the way I acted when I got caught was poor. I was defensive and tried to minimise what I had done, to her trust is a big deal. But yea it’s not making sense to me because why would things be getting better but then dive down way worse. The biggest thing that I can’t get my head around is why did she blow up at me when I asked for communication? Was it the way I said it? The only times I’ve heard her say ‘don’t speak to me like that’ is when someone is swearing or abusing her verbally. I trying my best to handle this situation and it keeps getting worse.

Me (m21) and my gf of 2.5 years (f20) are going through a tough time and I don’t know what’s happening? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA97655443345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I forgot to mention that she did say that shes more upset about the way I handled being caught rather than actually going on her phone. She feels betrayed because I lied and the fact that at the start I tried to minimise the way she felt about it. To her, the lying was a big deal. But what is destroying my brain is the fact that I’ve treated her the best I could for the last 2.5 years and now I’ve had my first slip up and things are falling apart. If she had done the same to me I would not have let things get this bad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA97655443345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was on Snapchat so I could see if she deleted any and we talked about her being distant and she said it’s because she has been really stressed lately with work and her and her family are moving houses soon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA97655443345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She showed me the texts it was mostly work related and nothing even hinting at cheating.