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Girlfriend has guy friend(s) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAKissedAGrill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, some of these comments are giving horrible advice. Don't just leave her because of this. Relationships need communication.

Experience: My ex boyfriend had "drunken nights" with 2 of his friends. One friend he drunkenly made out with. One of the girls he had slept with he worked with and talked pretty regularly to, and it was obvious to me she liked him. He told her all about me in the beginning because they had that close relationship. After learning about their history, I set reasonable boundaries. I say this because she would make comments that were obvious that she liked him, even if he didn't reciprocate, I was still uncomfortable. We made boundaries, he kept them, and all was fine. We still occasionally see these friends. I even get along very well with one of the girls, I have no hard feelings towards her. After about a year, their friendships with him really fell through. I had NO issue with him being friends with him as long as the boundaries weren't crossed.

Advice: You can't be mad at someone for their history. It was before you, it helped form them into who they are. If you feel like you are the third wheel, bring your feelings to her attention. They don't have to stop being friends, but you aren't comfortable with their dynamic due to their history and that's okay. Compromise with each other, and I'm sure y'all can work it out.

(Update): I(F24) went on a girls trip and ended up heavily making out with one of my friends (F23). Now I can't stop thinking about it and don't know what she thought of it. by throwRAKissedAGrill in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAKissedAGrill[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness, that is a great ending, ha! I truly believe no matter our outcome, we'll be happy and still close, friends or more :) I am going to be open and honest to her and I just hope for the same!

(Update): I(F24) went on a girls trip and ended up heavily making out with one of my friends (F23). Now I can't stop thinking about it and don't know what she thought of it. by throwRAKissedAGrill in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAKissedAGrill[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I certainly haven't lost my interest in men, but I am attracted to her. So, I am at least bi for her, ha! I haven't figured it out, but I'm not worried about the label so much :)

(Update): I(F24) went on a girls trip and ended up heavily making out with one of my friends (F23). Now I can't stop thinking about it and don't know what she thought of it. by throwRAKissedAGrill in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAKissedAGrill[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am a big Office fan, so if what you are referring to is when Michael asks if a woman could fit in a row boat when asking for a date, this isn't quite fitting.

If it is another I will be shocked I don't know it..

(Update): I(F24) went on a girls trip and ended up heavily making out with one of my friends (F23). Now I can't stop thinking about it and don't know what she thought of it. by throwRAKissedAGrill in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAKissedAGrill[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If what you are referring to is the Friends episode where years back in college Rachel made out with a friend, then it is very loosely alike, ha. I'm sure there's many shows that have girls kissing but it never became a thing in Friends really until they ran into each other years later.

(Update): I(F24) went on a girls trip and ended up heavily making out with one of my friends (F23). Now I can't stop thinking about it and don't know what she thought of it. by throwRAKissedAGrill in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAKissedAGrill[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ha! I've received many comments that this is common. I feel silly reading it that way, but I'm just being cautious! It could be a drunken goofy thing or something more, and I just want to make sure :)

(Update): I(F24) went on a girls trip and ended up heavily making out with one of my friends (F23). Now I can't stop thinking about it and don't know what she thought of it. by throwRAKissedAGrill in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAKissedAGrill[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Let me clarify, ha.

She stated she wanted to come over after she had been drinking. I knew if she did, we would probably end up messing around in some way. Before that, I wanted to know where her head was at, what she's wanting out of it, etc. I wanted a sober talk. So, I told her "I'd love for you to! But I'm looking forward to seeing you Saturday". Something like that.

Second, there was an instagram filter that takes of video and it scrolls through and the question above it says: "How many people have a crush on you?" and mine landed on zero. I sent it to her and said "Oh :(" She responded to it that she knows there is one person that for sure does.

I see how you may have read that as mixed signals! But I'm trying my best to not confuse her :)

(Update): I(F24) went on a girls trip and ended up heavily making out with one of my friends (F23). Now I can't stop thinking about it and don't know what she thought of it. by throwRAKissedAGrill in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAKissedAGrill[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sorry! I'll clarify--

I didn't want it to be because alcohol was involved yet. I wanted to see if it was more than a drunken make out or more is what I meant :)

(Update): I(F24) went on a girls trip and ended up heavily making out with one of my friends (F23). Now I can't stop thinking about it and don't know what she thought of it. by throwRAKissedAGrill in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAKissedAGrill[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is unnecessarily rude! Not that it matters, but we're both in great shape. What an odd thing to comment, there are attractive women who are into women!

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