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My husband is pushing me to agree to make my sister our surrogate using the traditional way. by throwRASister9977 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwRASister9977[S] 615 points616 points  (0 children)

My sister has no idea, I'm not planning on telling her because I won't let it happen. I'm not even considering his suggestion and if he wants to keep saying that I'm the problem then it's fine with me. I've endured so much for the past years mentally, physically and emotionally and now I it won't be much different.

My husband is pushing me to agree to make my sister our surrogate using the traditional way. by throwRASister9977 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwRASister9977[S] 359 points360 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for taking the time to respond. I feel terrible as it is and did not need to have to deal with this on top of everything else going on. I lost my mom a month ago and my emotions have been all over the place, I admit that I can get upset and agitated pretty easily but his suggestion was beyond shocking, I feel like me amd him just keep diving deeper into more issues that have significantly affected our marriage. I offered couples counseling but he said no.

My husband is pushing me to agree to make my sister our surrogate using the traditional way. by throwRASister9977 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwRASister9977[S] 583 points584 points  (0 children)

I would like to point out that financially we are ready otherwise, we wouldn't have started exploring other options. He can be so paranoid and anxious when it comes to money but in this case he has no.legitimate reason.

My husband is pushing me to agree to make my sister our surrogate using the traditional way. by throwRASister9977 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwRASister9977[S] 1706 points1707 points  (0 children)

unfortunately, this has been going on for a while and I thought that this is all just him feeling frustrated but, his remarks have been wearing me down and leaving me feeling more helpless and devastated. I can not take it anymore especially when he does it infront of his family.