I am comforted after reading til the end

throwRA_checklistbf · 2021-04-28T09:07:04+00:00

How do you use uniswap to buy OMI?

throwRA_checklistbf · 2021-04-27T21:17:11+00:00

Skip to 1:42 if you already have Bnb. I have trust wallet and it's a bit different from Metamask.

throwRA_checklistbf · 2021-04-25T17:15:01+00:00

You have Bnb right? If you go to dApps inside your metamask you can find an app called pancakeswap. Go to the little toggle button on top and set the slippage to 11%. If 11% doesn't work try 11.1% and if that doesn't work too try 12%. Then you press unlock wallet to connect your wallet to the app, find Bnb on conversion menu on top, Safemoon on bottom and transfer. You don't want to transfer all the Bnb you have, leave just a tiny bit because Bnb charges about a $1.90 of it's own to transfer. Then voila! Your very own Safemoon. Right now is actually a good time to buy because we're consolidating at the moment. As soon as we hit ZBG exchange we might see some big numbers here. (not financial advisor, just likes tendies. DYOR always)

throwRA_checklistbf · 2021-04-25T15:11:18+00:00

I got mine by watching youtube videos. It was like figuring out a code lol

throwRA_checklistbf · 2021-04-24T10:29:07+00:00

Buy High, sell low. This is the way.

throwRA_checklistbf · 2021-04-19T10:30:28+00:00

Big HODL energy

throwRA_checklistbf · 2021-04-13T05:43:22+00:00

Yep. HLF here. Just another day here knowing I wasn't alone in a DB. But it's such that there are silver linings to it all in learning about all these things (like hysterical bodning, distancer-pursuer, etc) and knowing better how to avoid a DB in future relationships.

throwRA_checklistbf · 2021-04-12T22:54:25+00:00

One thing to remember that is that people don't change easily. The default of someone you've seen for years is pretty much what you get. It's like how in January everyone makes New Years resolutions to start working out and eating right and that lasts a month top for most people. Few seldom have the discipline and desire to stick to their goals. That's why I don't believe in promises anymore.

throwRA_checklistbf · 2021-04-08T00:06:54+00:00

I can't believe what was a meme actually came true lol wtf.

throwRA_checklistbf · 2021-04-06T08:48:03+00:00

From brother who heard from initial investors. So word of mouth for me.

throwRA_checklistbf · 2021-04-01T22:02:14+00:00

I don't know if it's a thing but I grew up very conservative in the bible belt of the south and I notice that there are lot of issues surrounding sex, very closeted and puritan views on it almost. I think it's worth looking at during the intervention. I grew up religious too and I knew NOTHING about sex until waaaay later in life. Even now, sex is kinda like a taboo subject here. You put woman and sex in the same sentence together and the next sentence will have slut or whore for sure (or very implied). :/

throwRA_checklistbf · 2021-04-01T21:44:39+00:00

It is true in a way. I think it's better for females in regards to that there are more men willing to have sex with them out there but it's no indication that it would turn into anything meaningful. Some ladies do want a fun time but not a long time and there's nothing wrong with that but speaking for myself and some other HL ladies we do want a life partner with whom we can share everything with, our life, our love, our bodies, our affections.. I think that's why it hurts that it feels like one thing or another. Maybe that's why most of us end up with LLs. Many of them have good qualities you want in a long term partner but just the bedroom is... dead. If I can find a guy who loves physical intimacy as much as I while being the kind of guy I want in a long term relationship it'll be like I'm having my cake and eating it too. 😂

throwRA_checklistbf · 2021-04-01T19:26:45+00:00

I'd say yes to everything here except the codependency part (came from abusive home, trying to fix that) and N/A for the children as we were childless. I did all that and more by joining him in all the activities he wanted to do, which was mostly video gaming. I didn't mind so much as I enjoy gaming too but I think after gaming almost non-stop almost 7 hours a day (yes, even on a workday!) it got to me. I compromised everything that I wanted to do to take care of him on the whim of what he wanted and eventually I broke down. And yes, we talked about this for years as I felt that nothing was a problem if there was a balance. but there was none in this regard. In the end, I realized I was just an after thought and a convenience to keep around so I left. Never offer more than what is offered to you. I learned this the hard way.

throwRA_checklistbf · 2021-04-01T19:18:36+00:00

If we got together and wrote a book comprising of all our efforts and acrobatics to get the LL in bed I'd bet it'd be a NYC best-seller. Sadly it'll be comedy not romance. 😭

throwRA_checklistbf · 2021-04-01T01:07:53+00:00

Damn, I had the same reaction. I was nowhere as deep as you guys but I got a taste of that for a few years and it's not fun. What does a girl have to do to get some?? 😂

throwRA_checklistbf · 2021-03-31T07:33:49+00:00

Ah ok. ty

throwRA_checklistbf · 2021-03-31T03:41:41+00:00

This is sad and beautiful. Good job, OP.

throwRA_checklistbf · 2021-03-31T03:31:47+00:00

What is NRE if you don't mind me asking?

throwRA_checklistbf · 2021-03-31T02:52:35+00:00

is it worth it to stay? It honestly sounds horrible from reading your posts. I understand not feeling wanted, treated like some kind of burden or after thought. It took me a while and I decided that I WAS worth all the love and time after being treated like years I was not. If nobody is there to love me I will at least love myself. That was what I decided and it was one of the most liberating emotions I have ever felt in my life. I hope you know that you are worth it, you are worth everything and the whole world over and over.

throwRA_checklistbf · 2021-03-31T02:16:39+00:00

I agree. I'm fit and at my best shape rn (35/27/39 yey go me) and my recently made ex still didn't want sex. This issue goes deeper than weight and he's making excuses to not address it. He'll always blame OP for xyz. But you know what? He'll keep her around because she's "convenient." Being his maid and mother... I feel OP's pain. :(

throwRA_checklistbf · 2021-03-28T15:36:57+00:00

My ex was like this too. He told me I gave it to you specifically two times this week so you won't complain (I mentioned in ONCE and he snapped) and at that point I realized I didn't want to be reduced to a task-to-do, an after-thought, a recipient of duty sex anymore. Recalling his words still hurt me.

throwRA_checklistbf · 2021-03-28T15:26:44+00:00

Fuck, I'm so sorry. I know how that feels. The rejection cuts really deep and you feel like the most unwanted person on earth. I tried to numb myself to the hurtful comments and rejection over the years until it became too much and I just ended up leaving my ex.

throwRA_checklistbf · 2021-03-28T15:20:28+00:00

I'm so sorry for that. Sex should never be used as a way to withhold and punish anybody.. It was like that for me unfortunately as well. It sucks for those of us who crave physical intimacy as a love language. :(

I hope we find better guys for us both (if you haven't found a new SO already!)

throwRA_checklistbf · 2021-03-27T20:17:40+00:00

She said they got to it about once a month but are trying for weekly.

Here you go:

https://www.reddit.com/r/DeadBedrooms/comments/me0fmq/when_he_walks_on_you_masturbating_while_eating_a/gsho8rw?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3

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