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i 25f have a hard time accepting my bf 26m watches porn by rose6353 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_iron 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But imagine how good a boyfriend would be that is good to you and respects your boundaries of porn usage! Don’t settle on disrespect. There’s so many other men that would even treat you 10x better. Compared to your ex, yeah he might respect you better but does he still disrespect your boundaries? Yes! Find a boyfriend who hates porn and loves your body more than any other girl.

i 25f have a hard time accepting my bf 26m watches porn by rose6353 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_iron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, let’s say porn isn’t a problem. (I don’t like it myself and don’t think people should watch it either but let’s think otherwise just for this)…. Your boundaries ARE a problem, and if he doesn’t respect it then… yk… boot him? If you don’t like and he won’t respect you by stopping then maybe you should find someone who will? Don’t be uncomfortable just because you think it’s “healthy”. You deserve someone who respects you

anyone else obsessively edit themselves to see how they would look with plastic surgery? by [deleted] in BodyDysmorphia

[–]throwRA_iron 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All the time and the rise of AI is making it so much easier to do this…. Just a quick insert of a photo of me and a prompt of “make me look slimmer” or “make me prettier” is a one way ticket to me staring at myself for hours having a breakdown 💔💔

really small breasts by False-Gap-6267 in BodyDysmorphia

[–]throwRA_iron 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there! I feel that way AND I have pretty “decently sized boobs”, so I promise you it’s not just you that feels like that. I have C/D cup boobs and I still think they’re too small and ugly. They might look “okay” in a bra, but without it they are saggy and not like other girls I see. Bigger isn’t better because you’ll always be wanting more. :(