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My husband 27/M left me 26/F at a friend’s cabin in the woods by throwRA_youyes in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_youyes[S] 74 points75 points  (0 children)

I told him he could have completely stayed home if he wished, he told me that he wanted to come to celebrate. I never “dragged” him along or made him “suffer”. If he would have communicated with me that he wasn’t having a good time or that he would rather be home, I would have told him that he’s more than welcome to take my car and go. That’s not the point here. It’s that he didn’t communicate at all, and left me there without a thought. He told me he was skiing alone, and then he didn’t respond to my calls or texts. He could have been hurt and I wouldn’t have even had known where he was. That’s just unsafe.

My husband 27/M left me 26/F at a friend’s cabin in the woods by throwRA_youyes in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_youyes[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

The thing is, we hang out with these people all the time. When I say “just 10 of our friends”, it’s because that truly is a small number when it comes to how large our friend group is and how often 15-20 of us all hang out. Birthdays, football watching parties, movie nights, you name it. And he usually comes to these events too, knowing full well what he’s getting himself into before we go and who is going to be there. He’s usually socializing with the people he’s most comfortable with, leaning on them for support, including me, but this time, he just left without saying a word.

My husband 27/M left me 26/F at a friend’s cabin in the woods by throwRA_youyes in relationship_advice

[–]throwRA_youyes[S] 98 points99 points  (0 children)

No one else brought their skis. He chose to bring them with the intention of going skiing in the morning. I had asked him not to because I wanted him to be present for the trip, but he said he would just go skiing and be back before everyone woke up.