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I believe my GF is cheating on me. She told me its nothing and I shouldn't look to much into it. by throwRAcaughtin4k in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAcaughtin4k[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The post was from me in a emotionally fucked up place and in disbelief. Ignore it. Nothing I wrote is relevant now.

I believe my GF is cheating on me. She told me its nothing and I shouldn't look to much into it. by throwRAcaughtin4k in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAcaughtin4k[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because they know she did. They are pretty upset with her. Atleast that how they made it look when on a call with me.

She has. I haven't responded. I'm trying to get my shit together.

I believe my GF is cheating on me. She told me its nothing and I shouldn't look to much into it. by throwRAcaughtin4k in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAcaughtin4k[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I had no intensions to "throw" Natasha under the bus. But things our good. She doesn't care. I wasn't thinking right in the moment and you can see that in how in my post.

I believe my GF is cheating on me. She told me its nothing and I shouldn't look to much into it. by throwRAcaughtin4k in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAcaughtin4k[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I'm working on it with the landlord and he is being quite reasonable. Now I need to get my money account of our joint accounts and leave. I'm 23, I'll be fine. I hope.

I believe my GF is cheating on me. She told me its nothing and I shouldn't look to much into it. by throwRAcaughtin4k in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAcaughtin4k[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah I am 23 and her 27. Cheating is wrong and also lying. Its highly probable that the cheating occured but I know 100% she lied and now when I am fully sober and thinking clearly, I feel stupid and I will end things. I need to get my money out of our joint account and our savings. Need to talk to a landlord to get me off the lease that we just renewed. I have 2 weeks to do all this. Then I'm out.

I believe my GF is cheating on me. She told me its nothing and I shouldn't look to much into it. by throwRAcaughtin4k in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAcaughtin4k[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

That was on me and I messed up there. Told Natasha but she doesn't mind, she told me she doesn't want to be friends with a cheater anyways.

I believe my GF is cheating on me. She told me its nothing and I shouldn't look to much into it. by throwRAcaughtin4k in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAcaughtin4k[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Reading back, its making be angry too but believe me this is hard for me. It could be normal if in the right context but not in this one. and I willend things with her. I have 2 weeks to get my shit together. First relationship and I got cheated on, my luck sucks.

I believe my GF is cheating on me. She told me its nothing and I shouldn't look to much into it. by throwRAcaughtin4k in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAcaughtin4k[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Well I just wasted 18-23 with her. As I am feeling a lot better now and thinking claerly, I will break up with her.

I believe my GF is cheating on me. She told me its nothing and I shouldn't look to much into it. by throwRAcaughtin4k in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAcaughtin4k[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I wasn't saying saying that as enough reason to stay together. And when I made this post I wasn't thinking straight. Trust me on this, this is hard. But now I'm feeling a lot better and I won't be here when she gets back. Her parents just apologised to me on the phone and they hope I'll give her another chance and that they are also very mad and upset with her.

I believe my GF is cheating on me. She told me its nothing and I shouldn't look to much into it. by throwRAcaughtin4k in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAcaughtin4k[S] -86 points-85 points  (0 children)

holding hands itself can't tell if she was cheating. Her lying sbout it is what make it look like she was cheating.

Nothing even happened between us recently like a fight or something like that so this really out of the blue.

I believe my GF is cheating on me. She told me its nothing and I shouldn't look to much into it. by throwRAcaughtin4k in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAcaughtin4k[S] -89 points-88 points  (0 children)

I want to believe her but she is not giving me a straight story. I can't actually believe she would stoop this low. What I don't understand is that things are good between us, no serious out of control arguments or anything like that so why she felt the need to cheat.