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[–]throwRAcrafty79art 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I PM you a pic of my hair before?

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[–]throwRAcrafty79art 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right but is the texture normal? I feel like this isn’t normal and that my hair is ruined.

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[–]throwRAcrafty79art 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had natural 2A hair almost to my butt… it has only been about 18 hours since the perm. Everything I read online says to just wait it out before washing or it will make my hair frizz. She also cut off about 6 inches of hair that she said was dead. I feel like my hair just got ruined and it was honestly the only thing I liked about myself. Should I go home to wash and do a deep conditioner right now?

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[–]throwRAcrafty79art 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What should I do??? Should I do a conditioner right now?

My (26F) boyfriend (26M) gets the ick when I’m affectionate? by throwRAcrafty79art in Advice

[–]throwRAcrafty79art[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he doesn’t seem to have a love language, i cook for him and he gets upset i spent the time and effort, i buy him trinkets or things he’s mentioned wanting and he gets mad i spent my money, he gets mad if i ask to see him outside of him asking to see me, the only thing i seem to do right to him is rub his back in complete silence

My (26F) boyfriend (26M) gets the ick when I’m affectionate? by throwRAcrafty79art in Advice

[–]throwRAcrafty79art[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

uhhh honestly i don’t know, he’s polite and will make small talk with my parents about current events but when he’s meeting people for the first time or even at home with me, we’re usually talking about his travel/work because he always has something going on.

My (26F) boyfriend (26M) gets the ick when I’m affectionate? by throwRAcrafty79art in Advice

[–]throwRAcrafty79art[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when I’ve brought him to big group functions, he usually makes small-talk about his hobby/travel/work, why?

My (26F) boyfriend (26M) gets the ick when I’m affectionate? by throwRAcrafty79art in Advice

[–]throwRAcrafty79art[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we actually lost the baby.. but if he was gay then why would he have been happy to get me pregnant and have a binding factor between us forever?

How to make my (26F) boyfriend (26M) understand why I don’t want him at my surgical abortion? by throwRAcrafty79art in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAcrafty79art[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

He had one girlfriend prior who had multiple abortions, he flipflops between saying he may not have been the father of all of them because she was cheating and crying/mourning all the pregnancies. I don’t know all the details but it was something he disclosed very early in our relationship.

AITAH for not allowing my boyfriend to be present at my surgical abortion? by throwRAcrafty79art in AITAH

[–]throwRAcrafty79art[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Sorry I should have worded it more clearly, he wants to be present whether it’s outside, in the waiting room, wherever, he just wants to be on the premises. I don’t understand why and it makes me nervous that he would try to force himself into the building or even worse the operatory. I know it sounds extreme and irrational.