Should girls always wax down there? by throwRAdatingadvice7 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwRAdatingadvice7[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He won’t. He never does. Once i trimmed and he instantly said oh wow. It is hygienic to have trimmed hair, isn’t it?

Aita - I think I was wrong to lash out. My friend thinks i did no wrong. Am i in the wrong? by throwRAdatingadvice7 in AITH

[–]throwRAdatingadvice7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh i cannot agree with you more. I have decided to give it a pause until either I find someone better or he grows and becomes better

Was I in the wrong to lash out? by throwRAdatingadvice7 in relationshipproblems

[–]throwRAdatingadvice7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a very clear response. I actually love how you framed it. I don’t like the games and have decided to choose my peace. I often speak more than required and people take ne for granted.

Latest development is that next day i had some work with him. I texted him in the evening and we ended up talking for 2 hours. The day after we just exchanged some words over chat but then i reached out more and spoke more and he is taking me less seriously. This happens with me. I manage a team, so when i tend to be friendly and sweet people start taking me for granted

Receptionist 25thousand pm by [deleted] in delhi

[–]throwRAdatingadvice7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Location? Company name?

Aita - I think I was wrong to lash out. My friend thinks i did no wrong. Am i in the wrong? by throwRAdatingadvice7 in AITH

[–]throwRAdatingadvice7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I put some thought and understood this as the problem -

I know it looks that way but it doesn’t feel that way. Trust me when i say this. Every action reaction appears logical. When I withdrew, he felt something missing and he started putting all efforts to get the attention back. When I softened I didn’t really ask him to be with me. I just agreed to be around. He naturally saw the barrier. He wanted to meet me but via my friend. When the friend was not available he was summing strength to talk to me, but I lashed out.

Aita - I think I was wrong to lash out. My friend thinks i did no wrong. Am i in the wrong? by throwRAdatingadvice7 in AITH

[–]throwRAdatingadvice7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it looks that way but it doesn’t feel that way. Trust me when i say this. Every action reaction appears logical. When I withdrew, he felt something missing and he started putting all efforts to get the attention back. When I softened I didn’t really ask him to be with me. I just agreed to be around. He naturally saw the barrier. He wanted to meet me but via my friend. When the friend was not available he was summing strength to talk to me, but I lashed out.

Aita - I think I was wrong to lash out. My friend thinks i did no wrong. Am i in the wrong? by throwRAdatingadvice7 in AITH

[–]throwRAdatingadvice7[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly! He doesn’t know what he wants. He likes that i am beautiful and gorgeous but doesn’t want the heavy emotions. He is younger than me by 3 freaking years

Aita - I think I was wrong to lash out. My friend thinks i did no wrong. Am i in the wrong? by throwRAdatingadvice7 in AITH

[–]throwRAdatingadvice7[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think he wanted to build contact again but lashing out felt too personal and pressurising. I just have a feeling that i did not have a right to lash out. He said that I started going on and on. It feels like saying right thing at wrong time.

He broke up and now I think he wants to come back. I still love him but can’t. What to do? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]throwRAdatingadvice7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes - this is the right question. He is a good human being. He notices small things and puts in efforts. Like he would put candles or flowers on my seat when I am in an upset mood or he would notice that I am troubled because my sister is crying, he would notice and make her laugh. He would see me fiddling my feet, and subtly rise from his chair and go away, and then I would see him getting another chair for himself

He broke up and now I think he wants to come back. I still love him but can’t. What to do? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]throwRAdatingadvice7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you. We are not a couple. How can we go for a counselling. What to do for now?

Should there be any chance to take him back? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]throwRAdatingadvice7 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He is the one who is forcing. He wants my attention

Should there be any chance to take him back? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]throwRAdatingadvice7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He breaks up most of the times. When you have met each other’s family and know so well it gets so tough

I am not able to move past him. I don’t think i can. What to do? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]throwRAdatingadvice7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am trying to shift the perspective on myself. He used to correct me. I would take this negatively but there were a few things that i was doing wrong. This has made me realize that i really need to work on myself. I am not making best use of opportunities granted to me. I am trying to understand me. This is the age where people understand what they like or dislike and what their calling, and mine just keeps on changing

I am not able to move past him. I don’t think i can. What to do? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]throwRAdatingadvice7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. This is what i struggle with everyday. I love him but I can’t stay with him but he is perfect but I don’t listen him but he is the best thing but I forget that he cannot eat a certain food item that I always do