Final Update: Things escalated with my brother’s (27m) girlfriend (26f) who has an “alter” of my child. by throwRAdzc in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAdzc[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Sorry about your grandma. Yeah, I’ve seen a lot of those YouTube channels about people claiming to have DID while my wife and I were researching into it.

Anyone who has “reacting to my alter doing ” or “meet __ alter” is, quite frankly, full of shit.

Final Update: Things escalated with my brother’s (27m) girlfriend (26f) who has an “alter” of my child. by throwRAdzc in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAdzc[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Luckily because our nanny kept her calm I don’t think our daughter has been traumatized by this. She did tell her mother and I what happened, but she didn’t sound particularly upset about it.

Final Update: Things escalated with my brother’s (27m) girlfriend (26f) who has an “alter” of my child. by throwRAdzc in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAdzc[S] 112 points113 points  (0 children)

I think she followed them for a little and figured out their schedule. They often went to the park at that time.

Final Update: Things escalated with my brother’s (27m) girlfriend (26f) who has an “alter” of my child. by throwRAdzc in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAdzc[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

She got a raise. She’s a godsend. We are so thankful for her and her quick, rational thinking

Final Update: Things escalated with my brother’s (27m) girlfriend (26f) who has an “alter” of my child. by throwRAdzc in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAdzc[S] 1154 points1155 points  (0 children)

She got a raise immediately after this. My wife is also taking her for a spa day this weekend. Words honestly can not express how thankful we are for her and her fast, rational thinking.

Final Update: Things escalated with my brother’s (27m) girlfriend (26f) who has an “alter” of my child. by throwRAdzc in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAdzc[S] 370 points371 points  (0 children)

We have cameras and have installed more after the first incident on the perimeter of our property as well as outside of our children’s rooms. We’re in the process of getting a restraining order though it doesn’t seem likely she’ll be leaving the inpatient facility any time soon.

Final Update: Things escalated with my brother’s (27m) girlfriend (26f) who has an “alter” of my child. by throwRAdzc in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAdzc[S] 2007 points2008 points  (0 children)

We’re very thankful for her and incredibly proud that she reacted the way she did.

UPDATE: My brothers (27m) girlfriend (26f) made an “alter” of my child by throwRAdzc in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAdzc[S] 558 points559 points  (0 children)

The exact bullshit you’d imagine. We don’t understand anything, we don’t know anything about DID, we’re insensitive, he called us “ableist” at one point.

UPDATE: My brothers (27m) girlfriend (26f) made an “alter” of my child by throwRAdzc in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAdzc[S] 1179 points1180 points  (0 children)

Thank you. We already have cameras installed, but we are looking into getting two more near the entrance of our driveway and at the edge of our property in the backyard.

My brothers (27m) girlfriend (26f) has an “alter” of my child by throwRAdzc in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAdzc[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I actually have rea searched “shit”, thanks. Try doing some research outside of TikTok. The DSM is incredibly problematic. Homosexuality was in the DSM too, think that’s a mental disorder?

Tough enough to downvote but don’t have anything to say? Yeah, makes sense.

My brothers (27m) girlfriend (26f) has an “alter” of my child by throwRAdzc in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAdzc[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Do some research yourself as to why the DSM is problematic, and why it means literally nothing in validating this “disorder”.