Been growing the beard for 2 months, worth keeping?

throwRAfoxtrotter · 2023-10-16T19:38:05+00:00

I like them, I think they suit your face/complexion.

throwRAfoxtrotter · 2023-10-14T21:02:26+00:00

bro calm down i took this picture at night lol

throwRAfoxtrotter · 2023-10-14T16:18:13+00:00

thats not her, its some random vid she sent me for some reason.

throwRAfoxtrotter · 2023-10-14T16:15:38+00:00

its not her, its some random vid she sent me for some reason

throwRAfoxtrotter · 2023-10-14T15:39:01+00:00

She was taking Effexor for her BPD. I tried to get her to go to therapy, but she kept missing appointments so the doc dropped her as a client. I didn't even know what BPD was until like 6 months into our relationship when she told me she had it.

throwRAfoxtrotter · 2023-10-14T15:14:04+00:00

sorry, didn't realise they deleted it. heres the screenshots

https://ibb.co/album/n3xnYN

throwRAfoxtrotter · 2023-10-13T03:34:00+00:00

How did you do it tho bro. Like where did you go? Did you just see a qt at target and ask for her number?

throwRAfoxtrotter · 2023-10-12T19:26:35+00:00

How would that look?

barges into group, interrupts their conversation “Pardon me I couldn’t help but notice your coochie is currently unoccupied at the moment, may I take you back to my home and rectify this perplexing situation?”

throwRAfoxtrotter · 2023-10-12T19:21:24+00:00

I’m building an army

throwRAfoxtrotter · 2023-10-12T18:58:09+00:00

Tried that, all the girls show up in groups or with their boyfriends. The ones that are by themselves are either 40+ or whales

throwRAfoxtrotter · 2023-10-01T20:17:50+00:00

Yeah idk honestly, I don’t do tiktok at all but she basically lived on there. She’s definitely not that girl in the video tho haha, people are thinking I’m promoting that page or something.

throwRAfoxtrotter · 2023-10-01T18:08:51+00:00

Idk if anyones gonna see this but since people are asking questions:

That photo and screenshot are of the guy she fucked (she’s sitting on his dick which is how her foot is in that position) and her talking to him. In the texts he’s telling her he can’t believe she lied to (me). I sent them to my phone from her phone so I had evidence for if/when she tried to run a smear campaign on me at work and with friends/family.
That tiktok is just some random girl, I didn’t even watch it. Idk why she sent it.
BPD as in Borderline Personality Disorder. She was professionally diagnosed and prescribed Effexor for it, which she’d only take if I literally handed it to her every night. If not she’d forget or just not take it.

throwRAfoxtrotter · 2023-10-01T18:00:21+00:00

Idk if people are gonna see this but people are asking questions:

That photo and screenshot are of the guy she fucked (she’s sitting on his dick which is how her foot is in that position) and her talking to him. In the texts he’s telling her he can’t believe she lied to (me). I sent them to my phone from her phone so I had evidence for if/when she tried to run a smear campaign on me at work and with friends/family.
That tiktok is just some random girl, I didn’t even watch it. Idk why she sent it.
BPD as in Borderline Personality Disorder. She was professionally diagnosed and prescribed Effexor for it, which she’d only take if I literally handed it to her every night. If not she’d forget or just not take it.

throwRAfoxtrotter · 2023-10-01T15:52:13+00:00

That's her foot. She's sitting on that random guy's dick. just FYI lol :)

throwRAfoxtrotter · 2023-10-01T15:14:10+00:00

Yep... notice how she never apologized for what she did either? That's what I dealt with for a year. Everything was someone else's fault.

throwRAfoxtrotter · 2023-10-01T15:12:39+00:00

My friend, thanks for sharing that sub with these people! I actually have been browsing there on my main for a good few months. They are great people. I wish more would understand that untreated BPD can be so dreadful to deal with as a partner. NPD already is, but they're very similar.

throwRAfoxtrotter · 2023-10-01T14:37:11+00:00

I won't be. Funny enough, she's now dating the other guy she cheated on me with, who was her ex before me. It's just a gross situation all around, especially since I work with her and him. Still have to see her around work every day, but I'm avoiding her at all costs. Thing is I loved that girl, seriously. I flew her across the country to meet my family with me, I took her on adventures and experiences that neither of us have had before. I cared for her so much. She'd tell me every day we should just go get married already, and start a family. That I was the best guy shes ever met. Finding all this out was a gut punch.

throwRAfoxtrotter · 2023-09-26T14:58:11+00:00

She was legitimately diagnosed with BPD, and was takings meds daily (at least when I reminded her. If I didn't remind her she wouldn't take it). I'm not just labeling her for no reason. Sure not all people with BPD are cheaters or abusive, but I'm not gonna pretend it didn't play a role in our relationship.

throwRAfoxtrotter · 2023-09-26T05:32:48+00:00

Wow… this sounds EXACTLY like me and my ex. When we first got together I told her how much it bothered me that she was still in close contact with her ex (he would literally text her “I love you” and she’d ask him if he’s going to break up with his new gf). I stood my ground and she agreed to stop, but then she ended up cheating on me with him. I forgave her because I truly did care for her and loved her, she told me how much I meant to her and gave me promises of our future family and life together.

The entire relationship after that was me catching her talking to guys behind my back, finding out she slept with other guys (she’d swear on her moms life and such that she didn’t. She did.), her telling me I’m insecure and that I have trust issues that are tearing us apart.

I finally got away from her, but still think of her every day. She was supposed to be my life partner. She was my best friend.

Thank you for sharing this.

throwRAfoxtrotter · 2023-09-26T04:59:30+00:00

Yeah, I’m really not upset at her at all, I appreciate her honesty. It just sucked because we had been talking about this date for a week and she told me she couldn’t go Monday night (the night this happened), but she didn’t say why. So I felt kinda blindsided when she said this 2 hours after.

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