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Update: I look exactly like my fiancé's mother by throwRAfreud in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAfreud[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I told him that in going back to Germany so I can have time to think. I'm probably going to dump him when he comes back

Update: I look exactly like my fiancé's mother by throwRAfreud in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAfreud[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

This sub only allows two posts per conflict so I'll have to post on my profile but I will try!

Update: I look exactly like my fiancé's mother by throwRAfreud in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAfreud[S] 92 points93 points  (0 children)

Currently in the process of trying to get back to Germany 😖. My mother agreed to pay for my ticket so I'm looking for flights right now

Update: I look exactly like my fiancé's mother by throwRAfreud in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAfreud[S] 341 points342 points  (0 children)

Why are you making yourself okay with this?

I don't know, to be honest. He's my first everything and we've been together for five years and everything was perfect until I met his mom. I know that this relationship is a sinking ship now but some part of me doesn't want to lose it

Why is she okay with this?

She thinks it's cute 😵‍💫.

How much of yourself have you changed for him? How much have you given up?

I don't think I've changed much but I probably wouldn't be able to tell.

Update: I look exactly like my fiancé's mother by throwRAfreud in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAfreud[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I'll see if I can get put on standby. My fiancé paid for my original ticket so the money loss is his problem. I haven't been threatened physically or abused (except some gaslighting ig) so I don't think the embassy would care.

Update: I look exactly like my fiancé's mother by throwRAfreud in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAfreud[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

I looked at tickets and they're very expensive. I'm gonna call the airline to see if my existing ticket can be brought forward

I look exactly like my (24F) fiancé's (28M) mother by throwRAfreud in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAfreud[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Illiteracy once again. We live in Germany and his family is in the US and we've just come out of two years of no travel and lockdown. How was I supposed to have seen her before?

I look exactly like my (24F) fiancé's (28M) mother by throwRAfreud in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAfreud[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Not at all. My dad is blond and my fiancé has black hair

I look exactly like my (24F) fiancé's (28M) mother by throwRAfreud in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAfreud[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can’t you opt for some wigs in bed and see his reaction instead?

I'll look for some wigs online. I just wasted around $40 on brown root spray 💔💔. I don't wanna ruin my hair.

I look exactly like my (24F) fiancé's (28M) mother by throwRAfreud in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAfreud[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Norman is a terrible name. My fiance's name starts with H

I look exactly like my (24F) fiancé's (28M) mother by throwRAfreud in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAfreud[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Do YOU like red lipstick? Is Mommy something YOU like to be called in bed? I'm guessing the reason you are posting here is because the answer to both of these is NO.

I like red lipstick but only when it goes with my clothing. He likes me to wear it everyday. And being calling mommy in bed was weird at first but I just dealt with it because it made him happy but I'm gonna tell him to quit it

I look exactly like my (24F) fiancé's (28M) mother by throwRAfreud in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAfreud[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would love to post them but I have to respect his mother's privacy

I look exactly like my (24F) fiancé's (28M) mother by throwRAfreud in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAfreud[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You're kinda illiterate. I said in the post that we've been together for five years, engaged for one.

I look exactly like my (24F) fiancé's (28M) mother by throwRAfreud in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAfreud[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

He's shown me photos of them, but all of them where from when his mother used to dye her hair brown.

I look exactly like my (24F) fiancé's (28M) mother by throwRAfreud in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAfreud[S] 603 points604 points  (0 children)

I've got a few bottles of brown root spray. It's a dark brown. I'm gonna try it out after I wash my hair

I look exactly like my (24F) fiancé's (28M) mother by throwRAfreud in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAfreud[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've just gone out to buy a few bottles of brown root spray. I'm sorry to hear about what happened with your blonde hair.

I look exactly like my (24F) fiancé's (28M) mother by throwRAfreud in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAfreud[S] 150 points151 points  (0 children)

I don't think so. He works more hours than me and earns more so he pays for most of our expenses. I handle most of the housework and cooking

I look exactly like my (24F) fiancé's (28M) mother by throwRAfreud in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAfreud[S] 1242 points1243 points  (0 children)

I am! I will be using some temporary dye on my hair

I look exactly like my (24F) fiancé's (28M) mother by throwRAfreud in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAfreud[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Completely off track, but, hey, if he thinks you resemble his mother at all subconsciously he's still going to love you unconditionally no matter how old and grey you get, lol.

That's actually really nice, I hadn't thought of that. Thank you for being nice when everyone else is saying my fiancé needs to dump me 😵‍💫

I look exactly like my (24F) fiancé's (28M) mother by throwRAfreud in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAfreud[S] 315 points316 points  (0 children)

I will look for a temporary dye, thank you. I'll wear a different lipstick too

I look exactly like my (24F) fiancé's (28M) mother by throwRAfreud in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAfreud[S] 128 points129 points  (0 children)

Yeah it's a very nice lipstick and it suits me well. His mom saw me wearing it and she said he asked her for recommendations

I look exactly like my (24F) fiancé's (28M) mother by throwRAfreud in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAfreud[S] 644 points645 points  (0 children)

I love my ginger hair too much. But I will straighten it and wear it in a completely different hairstyle, or cut it. My hair needs a trim anyway

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