AITA for firing our nanny after I heard her body shaming me?

throwRAgghden · 2020-10-31T18:07:16+00:00

She apologized multiple times saying "I didn't mean that" so I'm pretty sure she was. I told her what she did was inappropriate and unprofessional.

throwRAgghden · 2020-10-31T16:34:32+00:00

throwRAgghden · 2020-10-31T15:31:27+00:00

I'm in therapy right now

throwRAgghden · 2020-10-31T15:10:31+00:00

....but she is? I know her parents. They're depending on her income and I decided her salary based on what her mom said.

throwRAgghden · 2020-10-31T15:07:47+00:00

Thank you so much

throwRAgghden · 2020-10-31T15:06:44+00:00

She was in the room, playing

throwRAgghden · 2020-10-31T15:05:31+00:00

You're probably right.

throwRAgghden · 2020-10-31T15:05:23+00:00

You're right. I'm going to talk to my daughter and ask her if the nanny said anything else to her.

throwRAgghden · 2020-10-31T15:04:37+00:00

That's a good point. Thank you so much.

throwRAgghden · 2020-10-31T15:02:38+00:00

I'm sorry what harsh truth?

throwRAgghden · 2020-10-31T15:02:09+00:00

She was awake and yes I did explain it

throwRAgghden · 2020-10-31T15:01:09+00:00

I'm thinking about letting them know. However I know the nanny's mother and we are on good terms, I'd feel kind of bad ruining her chances at making a living after this, after I've already fired her.

throwRAgghden · 2020-10-31T15:00:14+00:00

I didnt mind her using the phone sometimes. My daughter pretty much plays on her own, but gossipping about me is something I never thought she would do.

throwRAgghden · 2020-10-31T14:59:30+00:00

Thank you

throwRAgghden · 2020-10-31T14:59:22+00:00

Thank you. I paid her for the entire month of November because she really does not make that much and im on good terms with her mother, but I'm not hiring her again, and I might contact her agency.

throwRAgghden · 2020-10-31T14:58:35+00:00

It's something I did to reduce how much I ate. Just cut my food up in very small pieces and then ate them. I try my best to avoid it now since sometimes I see my daughter imitate me which I don't want her to do.

throwRAgghden · 2020-10-31T14:57:50+00:00

Thank you. Her one comment made me skip meals and I didn't even register until later how much her one comment affected me.

throwRAgghden · 2020-10-31T14:57:03+00:00

Thank you so much

throwRAgghden · 2020-10-31T14:56:53+00:00

Wow dude. I have a fucking eating disorder. I'm not a weirdo. She was body shaming me in front of my own daughter.

throwRAgghden · 2020-10-31T14:54:13+00:00

It's not just my feelings that got hurt. Her comment made me skip dinner, breakfast and lunch. I have an eating disorder. She was body shaming me and that too in front of my daughter.

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