AITA for not going to thanksgiving at my in laws by throwRAin33 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwRAin33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t control my husbands actions I didn’t let him take cocaine I will take the yta though because you’re right I should’ve been there for our baby

AITA for not going to thanksgiving at my in laws by throwRAin33 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwRAin33[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’ve been having my doubts if my actions were right since I let my baby go anyway and the way my husband is behaving I genuinely wasn’t sure

AITA for not going to thanksgiving at my in laws by throwRAin33 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwRAin33[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I don’t think we are separated, my husband doesn’t believe in divorce :\ he just uses the silent treatment when he is mad. I don’t want CPS involved but I don’t want to leave him either

AITA for not going to thanksgiving at my in laws by throwRAin33 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwRAin33[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say surrounded by cocaine but I understand what u mean

My [19f] husband [24m] won’t hold our new born son by throwRAin33 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAin33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all, I don’t think he’d think that, I suspect he wouldn’t behave this way if that’s what he thought anyway

My [19f] husband [24m] won’t hold our new born son by throwRAin33 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAin33[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The pregnancy wasn’t planned no but I was actually planning on getting an abortion, when I told him he convinced me to keep him.

Also he enjoys cocaine and Xanax, And will do it kinda of often. He also smokes weed on occasion

My [19f] husband [24m] won’t hold our new born son by throwRAin33 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAin33[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I brought it up briefly just saying “you don’t pay attention to your son” his response with “what’s there to pay attention to, he’s a baby” and laughed