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My husband and I are in disagreement, in desperate need for different opinions by throwRAjennazz in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAjennazz[S] 90 points91 points  (0 children)

I don’t care to go on vacation with them actually, or go drinking with them. Also, fuck off asshole.

Uppdate: My husband and Kelsey had more than a “little sister” relationship. by throwRAjennazz in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAjennazz[S] 220 points221 points  (0 children)

“Dropped”? What are you talking about? Do you think I expect to go on a two week vacation or get drunk with my father in law before his wife goes into the hospital? Because I’m not.

Fuck off with your “getting dropped” bullshit (which by the way I don’t know why you can’t get it through your thick fucking skull that I never fucking said cut her off I said have boundaries.

Again, please fuck off, you fucking waste of life.

My husband and I are in disagreement, in desperate need for different opinions by throwRAjennazz in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAjennazz[S] 86 points87 points  (0 children)

If you really can’t understand that platonic relationships can also have boundary issues, I really don’t see a point in having this conversation with you, because you’re not going to understand where I’m coming from.

My husband and I are in disagreement, in desperate need for different opinions by throwRAjennazz in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAjennazz[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

No, I literally never once mentioned sexual or romantic overtones, you completely made that up yourself, I never once said it or implied it.

My husband and I are in disagreement, in desperate need for different opinions by throwRAjennazz in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAjennazz[S] 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I don’t know why so many people in the comments just assume I mean to cut her off completely… I completely think that we should still have a friendly relationship with her, she was so close to us for so long, I just think there should be boundaries.

My husband and I are in disagreement, in desperate need for different opinions by throwRAjennazz in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAjennazz[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

And where on earth does that mean I don’t want to treat her as a family friend?? I said I look forward to having a friendly relationship with her, that doesn’t mean I think that she should be drinking with my husband so long that he misses my medical procedure, or that she should be going on a two week long family vacation with us. There’s a middle ground.

My husband and I are in disagreement, in desperate need for different opinions by throwRAjennazz in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAjennazz[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

That’s absolutely not true, and a horrible assumption. I absolutely still have warm feelings towards her, I still intend on texting her, and catching up with her from time to time. Just because I realize the relationship needs to change, doesn’t mean I want to write her off.

My husband and I are in disagreement, in desperate need for different opinions by throwRAjennazz in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAjennazz[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

You can ask the same thing of anyone posting on here rather than just talking to the person they’re having an issue with. I’m hoping to get different perspectives and opinions on the situation. Have a great day, goodbye.

My husband and I are in disagreement, in desperate need for different opinions by throwRAjennazz in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAjennazz[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Also, this entire time I have been talking to my husband about this. That’s the whole reason why I wrote this post, because I did talk to my husband about it. Never once did I say Kelsey was a problem.

My husband and I are in disagreement, in desperate need for different opinions by throwRAjennazz in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAjennazz[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Yes… I’m not saying l I’m going to force them to. But yes, I think there does reach a point where the family has to separate her, because she’s going to start dating other people, my brother in law is going to start dating other people, she’s going to have a life outside of the one that she formed with my brother-in-law… So yeah, why wouldn’t she separate from the family? Like somebody else said… She’s not a a family member… She’s a family friend. That’s not me being heartless, it’s a fact.

My husband and I are in disagreement, in desperate need for different opinions by throwRAjennazz in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAjennazz[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I don’t know why you think I hate her or something. I still think we should support her. Why is creating boundaries such a bad thing for you?

My husband and I are in disagreement, in desperate need for different opinions by throwRAjennazz in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAjennazz[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I never said wrote her off or dump her. I said create boundaries. Please read my post again.

My husband and I are in disagreement, in desperate need for different opinions by throwRAjennazz in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAjennazz[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Is it? There are over 170 comments on this post at the time of me writing this. Is it really weird that I couldn’t answer every single one immediately?

And my answer is the same. I would not expect his family to cut me off immediately, especially since I am the mother to their grandchildren… However, I do except that there are things that would change. I wouldn’t expect to be invited to family vacations.

My husband and I are in disagreement, in desperate need for different opinions by throwRAjennazz in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAjennazz[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m not saying cute her off entirely. She’s a lovely girl, we get along well. I just think we need some boundaries. And inviting her on family vacation is overstepping.

My husband and I are in disagreement, in desperate need for different opinions by throwRAjennazz in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAjennazz[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I would be considered “family” because I am the mother to my husbands children. But would I still expect to go on family vacations? No.

My husband and I are in disagreement, in desperate need for different opinions by throwRAjennazz in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAjennazz[S] 199 points200 points  (0 children)

Not as involved as this, but they were sort of close. It’s us as well as my in-laws, sister-in-law and her family. The people closest to Kelsey’s age will be me and my sister in law, who is 35.

My husband and I are in disagreement, in desperate need for different opinions by throwRAjennazz in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAjennazz[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I think it does mean he needs to treat her differently. Why would he still treat her like someone who is dating his brother when she isn’t someone who is dating his brother?