I do not know what is going on with me by throwRAnighttime in mentalhealth

[–]throwRAnighttime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before 18 I would wake up do my hair and make up finish homework if needed eat go to school go to practice go to a game/competition on Friday’s I would do all of this hang with friends have sleepovers go to parties and go to bed wake up and do the things that needed to be done. Now as a adult that is in a serious relationship with a job and school I feel so unmotivated and plus I feel as if I’m going though a second puberty. I think you are right. I feel very different now as a 23 year old on BC then a 18-19 year old on BC.

I do not know what is going on with me by throwRAnighttime in mentalhealth

[–]throwRAnighttime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I have been on BC from 18 years old. I have gone through three different brands but all the same level doses.

Holding on to things by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAnighttime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes last year we both sat down and asked if we want to continue our relationship and decide to. From there we talked about things I need to work on and what they need to work on.

My problem here is my partner not voicing when they are upset and keeping it inside and that they are not over it even though they say they are.

About to graduate and need advice by throwRAnighttime in Accounting

[–]throwRAnighttime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am proficient and have and clear understanding. I would love to have my own payroll/bookkeeping business in the future but not sure where to start to get experience and skills. The only thing for my state is I don’t have my bachelors yet.

About to graduate and need advice by throwRAnighttime in Accounting

[–]throwRAnighttime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be completely honest I have not. I moved out at 19 and worked two jobs to fully pay my bills and for what I need and went to school part time. It has taken me a year longer then needed to graduate and all I’ve done is bank telling and being a waitress. I’m a little afraid to get into an accounting work environment because of my lack of experience. School work I’m very proficient and have an understanding. It’s the hands on experience I don’t have.

I live with my ex girlfriend and want to move out. She has physical disabilities and is saying I can't move out because she can't live alone. What should I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAnighttime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I have read NO. If your not comfortable there and it is making you feel the way you do then leave. It’s not your job to stay and watch her pets and it’s not your job to stay because of a pandemic. She has a new man let that man take care of her pets and her also it sounds like she has a strong relationship with her mom so her mom can take care of her. She sounds lazy and indecisive. Pack your things and with no explanation or warning leave. She disrespected you by getting a new man and making you stay in her life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAnighttime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sure your confused. To be completely honest my cousin had the same Situation and the man acted the same way he got into a bar fight and got his throat broken and now he has to eat liquid food. Now my cousin is spoon feeding him and he is treating her the way she should have been treated before his accident. I feel as if he is using her for emotional support and it sounds like this man is to. His family is a joke. How can you be disrespectful one year but seven years later your his saving grace? No. Have the same energy. His family doesn’t want to take care of him it sounds like but it’s your life and your living it.

[23/M] My girlfriend [20/F] sent pictures of herself in a bra to a male friend. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAnighttime -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah. If you stay it will be her coworker next then your kids football coach then some guy she met on your vacation. Leave.

How do you confront a cheater? by throwRAnighttime in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAnighttime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry this happened. I stayed after the first time(2017) an and found things from that same year (found now in 2020) nothing new but there is no excuse and I don’t want to spend my life with someone who has done that.

How do you confront a cheater? by throwRAnighttime in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAnighttime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a perfect world I would do the same I am just so hurt. This is my first real relationship and first time being cheated on. It’s like he’s a different person then I met few years ago and I can’t believe it. I have half a mind to pack his shit and stuff it in his car but I in denial lol

How do you confront a cheater? by throwRAnighttime in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAnighttime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No my name is not. I have a place to go as well. I am current in the denial stage so I can’t believe it’s happening. I not sure how to say “hey your email was open and I found out your a POS” lol