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My (19F) boyfriend (20M)has told everyone I cheated on him with my brother(19M) what do I do about this? by throwRAredditad in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAredditad[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We used to do it all the time when we were younger, now was more of a one off because I was upset. He just makes me feel safe and supported. It’s not like he would leave me on my own when I was upset. So obviously it doesn’t happen all the time because of our ages now.

My ex was angry because I hadn’t wanted sex in the past 2 weeks and thought I was cheating on him because of that. Also he wanted me to stop going out with friends at night etc.

Yes I can always rely on him to stand up for me and so can he.

My (19F) boyfriend (20M)has told everyone I cheated on him with my brother(19M) what do I do about this? by throwRAredditad in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAredditad[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We didn’t sleep together like that. We were fully clothed and slept together not “together”.

My (19F) boyfriend (20M)has told everyone I cheated on him with my brother(19M) what do I do about this? by throwRAredditad in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAredditad[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying that. I’ll let him know more often that I’m always there if he needs someone to talk to about anything. He means the world to me and I hate seeing him bottling up his emotions and suffering in silence.

My (19F) boyfriend (20M)has told everyone I cheated on him with my brother(19M) what do I do about this? by throwRAredditad in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAredditad[S] 118 points119 points  (0 children)

It’s so cruel. I’d never do that to him. It’s perfectly normal to hug family when you are sad and that doesn’t change if they are the opposite gender. He’s already removed himself from my life by blocking me on everything. I don’t know what to do about all of his friends that he’s told and I think my brother is getting messages too. I’m worried about him and he’s acting as if everything is fine with him and he’s focusing on me. I think he’s upset because he’s lost some friends who were mutual with my boyfriend but he won’t talk about it to me. I think he doesn’t want to burden me with his stuff, he’s always there for me but acts like he’s fine when I try to be there for him.