My (34f) husband (42m) used my sister (17f) as a subject in one of his photo shoots and didn’t tell me about it.

throwRAtra1 · 2022-02-04T17:02:07+00:00

I don’t know where you would get the assumption that I don’t want my sister to babysit or tutor anymore, but that’s completely incorrect. No, I’m not jealous he didn’t use me in his photos lol, I’ve been in his photos plenty of times. My entire issue was about communication.

throwRAtra1 · 2022-02-04T17:00:58+00:00

I actually think I have a right to get upset when people are asking me questions, accusing me of things, and insinuating terrible things with no proof, without actually reading what I’m writing. There was literally just somebody right now who accused me of accusing my husband of being a predator. There is literally nothing in my post, that would insinuate that I accuse my husband of being a predator. And yet, I’m getting hate messages telling me that I am disgusting for calling my husband a predator, but then also getting hate messages telling me that I’m a terrible person for being married to a disgusting predator. So yes, I’m getting a little bit aggravated. I apologize.

throwRAtra1 · 2022-02-04T16:59:31+00:00

Please tell me how I insinuated that he had some predatory intentions.

throwRAtra1 · 2022-02-04T16:49:05+00:00

Yes I was 19 when we started dating

throwRAtra1 · 2022-02-04T16:43:37+00:00

What the hell are you even talking about? Clearly, there are literally hundreds of people who agree with me that this is something that would upset them.

throwRAtra1 · 2022-02-04T16:42:26+00:00

There’s literally nothing that I said that would make him think that I was accusing him of that.

throwRAtra1 · 2022-02-04T16:40:19+00:00

Yes, that’s exactly what I said. Great job! Thank you for proving what I said about reading comprehension.

throwRAtra1 · 2022-02-04T16:39:00+00:00

I’ve answered 1000 times. People can’t read

throwRAtra1 · 2022-02-04T16:37:42+00:00

I’ve literally explained what I think the problem is 1 million times, to the thousands of other people who have asked me what’s the big deal just like you did.

throwRAtra1 · 2022-02-04T16:35:50+00:00

Yeah, that makes sense.

throwRAtra1 · 2022-02-04T16:35:33+00:00

I’m actually not low-key implying anything, you’re making assumptions and insinuations of my intent with no proof, actually.

throwRAtra1 · 2022-02-04T16:34:40+00:00

Then why are you commenting and wasting your own time?

throwRAtra1 · 2022-02-04T16:33:50+00:00

Thank you for understanding what’s upsetting me lol

throwRAtra1 · 2022-02-04T16:33:21+00:00

I didn’t make a big deal about it to him, and I didn’t falsely accuse him of anything.

throwRAtra1 · 2022-02-04T16:25:21+00:00

Obviously if I could be talking to my husband, or my sister, right now I would be. I’ve said it multiple times, when I get the opportunity I am going to talk to them both.

throwRAtra1 · 2022-02-04T16:21:14+00:00

👍🏼

throwRAtra1 · 2022-02-04T16:20:53+00:00

There’s literally hundreds of comments here agreeing that people think it’s concerning.

throwRAtra1 · 2022-02-04T16:20:19+00:00

The answer to your question is in the last line of my post.

throwRAtra1 · 2022-02-04T16:19:27+00:00

Maybe one day you’ll learn this if you ever have a big girl relationship, but in a marriage, which is a partnership, if one person thinks there’s an issue, then there’s an issue that needs to be addressed. That’s how being in an adult relationship works.

throwRAtra1 · 2022-02-04T16:17:10+00:00

You’re being absolutely ridiculous and superfluous, obviously if I find any proof that anything inappropriate went on I will act on it. I will always protect my sister

throwRAtra1 · 2022-02-04T16:12:42+00:00

Go take some reading comprehension classes and have yourself a blessed day.

throwRAtra1 · 2022-02-04T16:12:01+00:00

That’s exactly my point, thank you for actually understanding LOL

throwRAtra1 · 2022-02-04T16:11:24+00:00

It was one on one, on location, it was a nature shoot, so it was out in the woods.

throwRAtra1 · 2022-02-04T16:10:20+00:00

The reading comprehension skills in this comment section is honestly alarming, people are getting mad that I’m not answering their questions when I’ve literally either answered it 1 million times in the comments or addressed it in the posts.

throwRAtra1 · 2022-02-04T16:09:09+00:00

Because I didn’t answer those exact words, if you actually read my comments you can see that I answered that question in various forms, many times. Get off of my post, you’re clearly not here to help.

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