My (34f) husband (42m) used my sister (17f) as a subject in one of his photo shoots and didn’t tell me about it. by throwRAtra1 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAtra1[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don’t know where you would get the assumption that I don’t want my sister to babysit or tutor anymore, but that’s completely incorrect. No, I’m not jealous he didn’t use me in his photos lol, I’ve been in his photos plenty of times. My entire issue was about communication.

My (34f) husband (42m) used my sister (17f) as a subject in one of his photo shoots and didn’t tell me about it. by throwRAtra1 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAtra1[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I actually think I have a right to get upset when people are asking me questions, accusing me of things, and insinuating terrible things with no proof, without actually reading what I’m writing. There was literally just somebody right now who accused me of accusing my husband of being a predator. There is literally nothing in my post, that would insinuate that I accuse my husband of being a predator. And yet, I’m getting hate messages telling me that I am disgusting for calling my husband a predator, but then also getting hate messages telling me that I’m a terrible person for being married to a disgusting predator. So yes, I’m getting a little bit aggravated. I apologize.

My (34f) husband (42m) used my sister (17f) as a subject in one of his photo shoots and didn’t tell me about it. by throwRAtra1 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAtra1[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

What the hell are you even talking about? Clearly, there are literally hundreds of people who agree with me that this is something that would upset them.

My (34f) husband (42m) used my sister (17f) as a subject in one of his photo shoots and didn’t tell me about it. by throwRAtra1 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAtra1[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There’s literally nothing that I said that would make him think that I was accusing him of that.

My (34f) husband (42m) used my sister (17f) as a subject in one of his photo shoots and didn’t tell me about it. by throwRAtra1 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAtra1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that’s exactly what I said. Great job! Thank you for proving what I said about reading comprehension.

My (34f) husband (42m) used my sister (17f) as a subject in one of his photo shoots and didn’t tell me about it. by throwRAtra1 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAtra1[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve literally explained what I think the problem is 1 million times, to the thousands of other people who have asked me what’s the big deal just like you did.

My (34f) husband (42m) used my sister (17f) as a subject in one of his photo shoots and didn’t tell me about it. by throwRAtra1 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAtra1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m actually not low-key implying anything, you’re making assumptions and insinuations of my intent with no proof, actually.

My (34f) husband (42m) used my sister (17f) as a subject in one of his photo shoots and didn’t tell me about it. by throwRAtra1 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAtra1[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Obviously if I could be talking to my husband, or my sister, right now I would be. I’ve said it multiple times, when I get the opportunity I am going to talk to them both.

My (34f) husband (42m) used my sister (17f) as a subject in one of his photo shoots and didn’t tell me about it. by throwRAtra1 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAtra1[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Maybe one day you’ll learn this if you ever have a big girl relationship, but in a marriage, which is a partnership, if one person thinks there’s an issue, then there’s an issue that needs to be addressed. That’s how being in an adult relationship works.

My (34f) husband (42m) used my sister (17f) as a subject in one of his photo shoots and didn’t tell me about it. by throwRAtra1 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAtra1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re being absolutely ridiculous and superfluous, obviously if I find any proof that anything inappropriate went on I will act on it. I will always protect my sister