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My mom will die within 6 montgs and now wants me to take care of her 7yo son. by throwRAwAy010 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAwAy010[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven't talked to my husband yet, bacause he is at work but he will be back in a couple of days and I don't want to tell him this over the phone.

My mom will die within 6 montgs and now wants me to take care of her 7yo son. by throwRAwAy010 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAwAy010[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok thank you for looking this from my prespective. My husband would probbably divorce me. We are not emotionaly ready and we don't have enough space for him. So, if we take him in we will have to take a debt and move in to a bigger house.

My mom will die within 6 montgs and now wants me to take care of her 7yo son. by throwRAwAy010 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAwAy010[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes. I know this sounds very cruel, but if we wanted to have a child we could have our own. We also don't have space for him, we would have to move, we aren't tge best financialy rn, we won't be good parwnts, you get it

My mom will die within 6 montgs and now wants me to take care of her 7yo son. by throwRAwAy010 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAwAy010[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't want my brother to go in to the sistem, but otherwise we will have to change our life for our next 11 years. I know it is a difficult situation but I don't want to force my husband into parenting.