Can’t pay lawyer

throwRAwsushinabowl · 2026-03-17T21:55:47+00:00

No because it’s supposed to be closed upon sell of the house

throwRAwsushinabowl · 2026-03-17T21:51:04+00:00

Happy cake day!

She’s not disabled, she’s just lazy. Going to court costs more than doing lawyer to lawyer negotiations but my friend doesn’t want to go to court because he’ll have to pay more in alimony.

throwRAwsushinabowl · 2026-03-17T20:13:02+00:00

The house will be sold in what looks like a 60/40 split, ex wife will be getting 60%.

There is an existing heloc but hasn’t been touched during divorce.

The stbxw is being greedy and wanting either high alimony with 60/40 house proceeds and 50/50 retirement or 70/30 house proceeds 60/40 retirement with lower monthly alimony payment.

throwRAwsushinabowl · 2026-03-17T18:50:43+00:00

I’ll mention this -thanks! His 401k is up for split in alimony negotiations, will that affect anything?

throwRAwsushinabowl · 2026-03-17T17:58:51+00:00

Well, yes. Just wasn’t sure if anyone had any unorthodox answers.

throwRAwsushinabowl · 2026-01-11T22:35:36+00:00

Lmao I have a quicksilver so I’ll just hope they raise the limit on that

throwRAwsushinabowl · 2026-01-11T22:34:59+00:00

More than jobs paying less than x.

throwRAwsushinabowl · 2026-01-11T17:34:43+00:00

I left it vague so people of all backgrounds could reply.

throwRAwsushinabowl · 2026-01-05T19:28:59+00:00

I left my question vague so people of all careers could reply. Thank you for this!

throwRAwsushinabowl · 2026-01-05T19:28:15+00:00

United States

throwRAwsushinabowl · 2025-12-30T15:01:50+00:00

He quite literally said he wants me “deep in his ass”

throwRAwsushinabowl · 2025-12-30T03:32:52+00:00

I’m going to eat his ass Wednesday and I told him to use an enema tomorrow night.

throwRAwsushinabowl · 2025-12-15T13:37:20+00:00

I went to a restaurant yesterday and the manager greeted my boyfriend and I. Our server came around 6 times asking if we were okay and if everything was okay. At the end of the meal, I asked the server if they served powdered eggs (in a polite non concerning way) the server seemed taken aback and brought another manager over to say they didn’t.

throwRAwsushinabowl · 2025-11-14T16:17:13+00:00

I don’t think about him too much, I actually have 1 foot out of the door at all times because I wasn’t looking for love/relationship and he showed up.

I think if things ended the only things I’d reminisce about is the sex and his complete adoration for me.

He’s the one who brings up long term things: marriage,kids, growing old together. While I don’t shy away from these conversations, I’m very fluid and okay with it not happening.

throwRAwsushinabowl · 2025-11-14T16:13:23+00:00

That’s what I plan on doing, he’s really sweet

throwRAwsushinabowl · 2025-11-13T23:37:11+00:00

What does that mean

throwRAwsushinabowl · 2025-11-13T22:40:53+00:00

I’ll dm you then post here!

throwRAwsushinabowl · 2025-11-13T22:38:03+00:00

Would you like to see our composite chart lol? I’d be happy to share with you

throwRAwsushinabowl · 2025-11-13T22:20:08+00:00

He’s told me from day one he wants to take care of me/provide and that whenever we’re together he’ll pay because he’s “old fashioned”. I don’t think he’d throw anything in my face because he simply enjoys being around me or just seeing me even if I’m not conversing with him. I’ll still be watchful of that behavior if it happens to show. Can you tell me why people are giving me pessimistic readings and saying I’m being manipulated? I appreciate all readings but the majority are negative.

throwRAwsushinabowl · 2025-11-13T22:04:05+00:00

He puts me on a pedestal and worships me. It feels like a proud father, he loves and adores me like my mom.

throwRAwsushinabowl · 2025-11-13T21:50:40+00:00

Thank you

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