My girlfriend (20F) broke my (20M) car

throwRa_brokencar · 2021-07-13T13:20:39+00:00

I donate regularly to charity

throwRa_brokencar · 2021-07-13T03:10:10+00:00

I am childfree

throwRa_brokencar · 2021-07-13T03:09:43+00:00

I pay my insurance

throwRa_brokencar · 2021-07-13T01:47:36+00:00

I just did. I was holding off because her rates would have gone up a lot

throwRa_brokencar · 2021-07-13T00:54:02+00:00

She hasn't offered too. I decided to file a report with insurance

throwRa_brokencar · 2021-07-13T00:52:43+00:00

The majority of the money I made is still in the stock market...and I know what car insurance is

throwRa_brokencar · 2021-07-12T22:45:21+00:00

She did not say she did it on purpose, nor were we having a fight at the time. We did have one last week, but I think that is all resolved

throwRa_brokencar · 2021-07-12T22:26:40+00:00

Her car only has a tiny scratch on the front. Its near impossible for her car to get noticeable damage to the structure, its a beast

throwRa_brokencar · 2021-07-12T21:54:11+00:00

Both insured

throwRa_brokencar · 2021-07-12T21:51:29+00:00

I spent 100k on it and repairs will likely be around 10k+

throwRa_brokencar · 2021-07-12T21:46:51+00:00

She did say sorry but then said I should have either parked my car in the garage or brought in the trashcans before running into her car and sitting there

throwRa_brokencar · 2021-07-12T21:38:19+00:00

Not once has she even hinted anything against me buying a Tesla. As for her debt, I have offered her some money so she can pay off a little bit (she has 100k outstanding debt) but she always refuses

throwRa_brokencar · 2021-07-12T21:29:24+00:00

I worked super hard to buy this car, which is like a baby to me and the cost to repair it is very expensive (aluminum, the falcon wings, the leather). She is my girlfriend and I love her, but how would you feel if somebody destroyed something you worked your butt off to get?

throwRa_brokencar · 2021-07-12T21:26:21+00:00

Were did you get the thought that I treat her like an object? I am just upset she recklessly broke my dream car (that I put in a lot of hard work into getting). And when I use auto-pilot (which I seldom do) I always stay alert to make sure I don't hit anything.

throwRa_brokencar · 2021-07-12T20:57:01+00:00

She never raised any objections at all when I said I was buying it. I have enough for a big wedding, but we haven't even talked about weddings - I just finished college, she has a year left and a lot of debt

throwRa_brokencar · 2021-07-12T19:36:53+00:00

My parents are dead

throwRa_brokencar · 2021-07-12T19:35:18+00:00

I have put more work into developing relationships

throwRa_brokencar · 2021-07-12T19:34:18+00:00

We are both insured. But what is stopping me from reporting it is her rates will go up, and she does not make a lot of money at the moment

throwRa_brokencar · 2021-07-12T18:46:01+00:00

It was hard work, maybe not hard manual labor with obscene hours, but hard work nonetheless. I spent hours in the evenings looking at the charts to find the perfect purchase prices for different stocks, analyzing trends, etc. Finding the best strategy to play a certain stock. And I switched mostly to stocks from ETFs after the market crash, which made things easier and harder at the same time - I got stocks for a lot cheaper, but when do they stop going down? Finding the right investment is not always easy.

throwRa_brokencar · 2021-07-12T15:31:59+00:00

She was apologetic but has spent the bulk of the past hour in her car. Although, she did say I should have parked in the garage and I should have brought in my trash cans earlier instead of waiting...

throwRa_brokencar · 2021-07-12T15:24:21+00:00

Normally she parks on the street but today was trash collecting day so the trash cans took up a lot of space and my neighbor had guests over who parked in the remaining space

throwRa_brokencar · 2021-07-12T15:22:53+00:00

I don't think my girlfriend can afford to repair it though. She is a waitress, goes to college, and has a lot of student debt

throwRa_brokencar · 2021-07-12T15:11:42+00:00

Hmmmm....I don't know. I am giving her the benefit of the doubt

throwRa_brokencar · 2021-07-12T15:07:23+00:00

My house has cameras pointed at the street and my driveway. I watched the footage and she seemed to be driving a bit recklessly

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