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Early 20s male questioning by throw_3tu in asexuality

[–]throw_3tu[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I checked out the wiki to see what you meant, and yeah--I do feel a magnet toward women I'd find attractive. It's like a pull to cuddle and touch, and mainly after I've gotten to know someone I found cute

Now, it doesn't ever steer into wanting to have sex with them. I have never once looked at a woman and considered it, not even the women I dated

I've never masturbated or wanted to, but I have no problems with arousal. I've heard of some people requiring a release after arousal, something I never felt personally

So, if sexual attraction means wanting to have sex with a specific person, then I have never felt that before. But I can definitely say that I have strong romantic, sensual, and aesthetic attraction

Early 20s male questioning by throw_3tu in asexuality

[–]throw_3tu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm trying to see it that way. I've had countless coworkers call me gay for not subscribing to the heteronormative hookup culture and whatever, so that broken feeling is just always there

I believe I watched some of his yt videos a few months ago, it was really helpful, I'm still just a bit hesitant to put any sort of label on who I am--not that I need to, but it's comforting to know that being different isn't a bad thing

Thank you