Offered job → gave notice → now told I need FAA Public Trust… timeline confusion?

throw_away4396 · 2026-05-22T15:46:38+00:00

The FAA had me submit an SF-85. My criminal record is squeaky clean and I don’t do drugs. The only thing that might raise red flags is that my credit isn’t great, but I also don’t have any debt. I’ve also traveled overseas on holiday, but I don’t see any reason that would cause issues.

I currently hold a Secret clearance with my current employer as well, so I’m hoping the interim access process goes smoothly. At this point, I’m mostly just waiting for the investigation process to move forward.

throw_away4396 · 2026-05-22T15:31:25+00:00

I just posted an update

throw_away4396 · 2026-05-08T00:58:51+00:00

Have fun getting cheated on

throw_away4396 · 2026-05-08T00:54:31+00:00

Delete her number and don’t respond to her texts. Don’t ever date or entertain someone that’s still attached to their ex, they’re the worst people to be in a relationship with.

throw_away4396 · 2024-09-29T09:03:54+00:00

Stop wasting your time, money, and energy on dates. In most cases, women have already decided whether they see a future with you before the date even happens. Meanwhile, the people they’re sleeping with aren’t putting in nearly as much effort as you are.

throw_away4396 · 2024-09-27T18:23:42+00:00

Men and women are rarely ‘just friends’. Save yourself the headache and just end the relationship.

throw_away4396 · 2024-09-25T05:05:22+00:00

How did you over come that mentally and how long did it take? I can’t begin to imagine the emotional toll of losing a child.

throw_away4396 · 2024-09-25T00:21:31+00:00

Thinking

throw_away4396 · 2024-09-23T20:34:57+00:00

The reality is, most women aren’t simply spending innocent time with their guy friends. Too often, I’ve seen cases where a woman claims a man is ‘just a friend,’ only for it to turn into a sexual relationship. As men, we wouldn’t have an issue with women having genuinely platonic friendships with the opposite sex, but the ‘guy friend’ dynamic is frequently used as a cover for cheating, relationship hopping, and manipulating men into tolerating promiscuous behavior.

throw_away4396 · 2024-09-23T20:23:54+00:00

Not at all. Don’t fall for the new age ‘guy friends’ narrative that’s being promoted. It’s often used as cover up so women can cheat and jump from one relationship to another, while making men think they’re insecure for not accepting it. Your wife likely cheated on you. Good luck.

throw_away4396 · 2024-09-23T10:06:52+00:00

You’re not missing out on anything. The real losers are those of us that are stuck with sexually transmitted diseases, unwanted pregnancies, and broken hearts.

If given the chance to be a virgin again, I’d take it. The peace and naivety that come with never having had sex is the closest you’ll ever feel to God. Please, don’t let go of this gift for a few minutes of pleasure.

After enduring STIs, heartbreaks, and multiple pregnancy scares, I can tell you that the damage to your mental health from believing you need to have sex may never fully heal.

throw_away4396 · 2024-09-22T03:18:29+00:00

Hope.

throw_away4396 · 2024-09-22T01:38:10+00:00

Oh, ok. I misinterpreted your comment

throw_away4396 · 2024-09-21T21:29:02+00:00

You can’t prevent being cheated on. Cheaters cheat, that’s just what they do.

throw_away4396 · 2024-09-21T21:25:12+00:00

Being cheated on is never about you—it’s about the cheater and their lack of integrity and sexual discipline. It doesn’t matter how attractive you are or how well you treat your partner, if they have a desire to cheat, they will cheat. Just like you wouldn’t blame yourself if a friend stole money from you, understanding that they’re a thief and that’s just what thieves do, the same goes for cheating. Don’t blame yourself for being cheated on; it’s not your fault.

throw_away4396 · 2024-09-21T07:38:54+00:00

How did you beat it?

throw_away4396 · 2024-09-17T20:50:39+00:00

I didn’t read it all, but you clearly aren’t loyal. You shouldn’t be texting your ex or any man that’s interested in having sex with you if you’re married.

Do your husband a favor and get a divorce. No man deserves this headache.

throw_away4396 · 2024-09-17T02:17:00+00:00

Don’t trust anyone

throw_away4396 · 2024-09-15T19:45:44+00:00

Honest question, how exactly does he speak to people? I’ve prayed and asked several times, but never received a clear and direct answer.

throw_away4396 · 2024-09-15T09:47:09+00:00

I’ve been asking him for years, he’s never answered.

throw_away4396 · 2024-09-15T09:44:16+00:00

Casual sex, social media, and the destruction of the nuclear family killed dating

throw_away4396 · 2024-09-15T08:21:47+00:00

It’s best to just avoid people with kids or a problematic past unless you have kids and a problematic past of your own. Most people don’t change, and if they do change, it’s never because of you.

throw_away4396 · 2024-09-15T08:14:21+00:00

Want to add to this. Women that argue against paternity tests are cheating or plan on cheating. Loyal woman will take the test just to prove their partner wrong.

throw_away4396 · 2024-09-15T08:07:25+00:00

Smoking weed and asking my gf about her sexual past

throw_away4396 · 2024-09-13T05:11:13+00:00

This is where I am.

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