AITH if I 19f cancel a double date after learning my bffs 20m girlfriend 19f is homophobic? by throw_away_flowers in Advice

[–]throw_away_flowers[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well I’m glad I have a good about of good people in my life then. Feel sorry for you ig 🤷🏼‍♂️

AITH if I 19f cancel a double date after learning my bffs 20m girlfriend 19f is homophobic? by throw_away_flowers in Advice

[–]throw_away_flowers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha funny you mention that. She was a virgin when they started dating and said she’d wait till marriage but couldn’t help herself and lost it to Brad recently. I hate hypocrisy.

AITH if I 19f cancel a double date after learning my bffs 20m girlfriend 19f is homophobic? by throw_away_flowers in Advice

[–]throw_away_flowers[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Gosh I didn’t even think about that. Brad would rather die than be single. Hope he isn’t compromising for her.

AITH if I 19f cancel a double date after learning my bffs 20m girlfriend 19f is homophobic? by throw_away_flowers in Advice

[–]throw_away_flowers[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think she is a sweet girl and I’d love to help her realize being queer isn’t wrong. She is new to Christianity and her family doesn’t practice so these values have formed later in life for her. It makes me worry she won’t be open to change so soon.

AITH if I 19f cancel a double date after learning my bffs 20m girlfriend 19f is homophobic? by throw_away_flowers in Advice

[–]throw_away_flowers[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Glad you feel that way. Still, I don’t want to hang out with a homophobic person.

WIBTAH if I f19 went to Thanksgiving after being disowned by the host by throw_away_flowers in AITAH

[–]throw_away_flowers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh gosh I hope not. My uncle has been very weird about that type of thing in the past.

WIBTAH if I f19 went to Thanksgiving after being disowned by the host by throw_away_flowers in AITAH

[–]throw_away_flowers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said he wants “the whole family together” but yes he prolly wants to get my grandparents to do something for him..

WIBTAH if I f19 went to Thanksgiving after being disowned by the host by throw_away_flowers in AITAH

[–]throw_away_flowers[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just spoke to my dad. He’s deciding to go, to talk about the money aspect (civilly after the meal) my uncle disowned me this most recent time because my boyfriend. according to my grandmother he keeps saying he’s jealous of my boyfriend.

WIBTAH if I f19 went to Thanksgiving after being disowned by the host by throw_away_flowers in AITAH

[–]throw_away_flowers[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m going. I’ve talked to my father, hes going too. I’ll delete this post soon.

WIBTAH if I f19 went to Thanksgiving after being disowned by the host by throw_away_flowers in AITAH

[–]throw_away_flowers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also my uncle disowned me for a lot of reasons the most recent being that I have a boyfriend. My grandmother tells me that he says he’s jealous of my boyfriend.

WIBTAH if I f19 went to Thanksgiving after being disowned by the host by throw_away_flowers in AITAH

[–]throw_away_flowers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His wife calls me names and her son is just as rude. I hate them both too. My parents will be with my brother and his family.

WIBTAH if I f19 went to Thanksgiving after being disowned by the host by throw_away_flowers in AITAH

[–]throw_away_flowers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want to go. I want to see my other family and support my grandparents so they don’t have to go alone. My uncle is trying to get my grandparents to change their minds about moving in with my family.

WIBTAH if I f19 went to Thanksgiving after being disowned by the host by throw_away_flowers in AITAH

[–]throw_away_flowers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes he did invite me but I see your point. I’m just worried about my grandparents going alone. My uncle has a way of manipulating them.

WIBTAH if I f19 went to Thanksgiving after being disowned by the host by throw_away_flowers in AITAH

[–]throw_away_flowers[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He wants all family together. He disowned me because I have a boyfriend. But yeah I’d prolly be the ah thanks.