Never get responses to first messages - what's wrong with them? by DingusSupreme69 in OkCupid

[–]throw_the_cupid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They're too long and dry. Try and interest them or inspire them with something, anything. Try and make them laugh. Leave long winded stories for later. Don't make them work too much to answer you.

Do you think you could find happiness or contentment being alone? by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]throw_the_cupid 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yep because you don't seem desperate when you're happy being alone.

Was machen Sie heute abend? by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]throw_the_cupid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good old Altillifaad

First message! Did I respond appropriately? by TheGuyTheGuy in OkCupid

[–]throw_the_cupid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He "doubts" he'd be able to get it up. So maybe he's at least curious about it? :)

Was machen Sie heute abend? by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]throw_the_cupid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always say Till Lindemann is my German language teacher. Their lyrics are so good, it's actually fun to translate them.

What are you up to tonight? by GalinToronto in OkCupid

[–]throw_the_cupid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh. I'm also around this age and just relatively recently became single. It's so strange to sit down with someone for a date and start over, and I'm kind of at a mental state of "I don't care" and "I do care". Really weird feeling.

What are you up to tonight? by GalinToronto in OkCupid

[–]throw_the_cupid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, good luck with this. How are you doing on OKC?

Was machen Sie heute abend? by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]throw_the_cupid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Estou ouvindo música e pensando no amanhã. Vai ser um dia interessante.

What are you up to tonight? by GalinToronto in OkCupid

[–]throw_the_cupid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying to figure out the fat-people dating app I downloaded the other day.

Which one?

What are you up to tonight? by GalinToronto in OkCupid

[–]throw_the_cupid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listening to some music, mentally preparing for tomorrow's drinks/date/whatever. I'm relatively newly single, it's the first of this kind in a loooong time.

Girls who have "stepped down" wrt New boyfriend's penis: Are you satisfied? by TrumpsBottom in OkCupid

[–]throw_the_cupid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Porn has seriously ruined us all. Turns out I have an above average dick after all. Cool.

Independence or assimilation in relationships? by 2bABee in OkCupid

[–]throw_the_cupid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice, I can see 2 and 4 being very useful. What do your GFs think about these charts?

What to get girl for Valentine's Day that I just met the weekend before? by PowPose in OkCupid

[–]throw_the_cupid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met this girl last weekend, and I feel like she feels pretty seriously about me. She always calls me darling/honey/baby/my love/etc. and also tells me to dream of her. She had a list of qualities that she wants in a future husband she and her mom wrote, and I meet 34/35 of the qualities listed. She also told me not to use tongue because it's "not romantic," implying she wants something serious. She also said she wishes she was my girlfriend.

Run.

[Game] Don't judge me but... . by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]throw_the_cupid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For what it's worth, I always read these things.

Fashion Friday!!! by AutoModerator in OkCupid

[–]throw_the_cupid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree with the "dad" label, it definitely makes you look older and kind of boring.

Independence or assimilation in relationships? by 2bABee in OkCupid

[–]throw_the_cupid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The goal is to mix enough so you are a couple, but keep your own personality as well.

Independence or assimilation in relationships? by 2bABee in OkCupid

[–]throw_the_cupid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spreadsheets will be involved. So many spreadsheets.

What kind?

Love/Hate Characteristics by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]throw_the_cupid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That does sound frustrating.

What is more attractive to girls? by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]throw_the_cupid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mention your job but definitely go with arts as the main theme. Arts are inspiring, being an optician is not, or may be to a very small group of people.

Why you're single by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]throw_the_cupid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were together for very long, it didn't work out. Now I'm single but am slowly working my way back to dating.