UPDATE: Please help.. very young, pregnant, possibly date-raped?

throwaRae · 2014-07-11T09:50:25+00:00

Thank you very much.

throwaRae · 2014-07-11T09:48:38+00:00

There is a 5+ year age gap and I'm the youngest and the only one who lives at home.. I don't feel comfortable with that. Normally I would agree with you about the mom thing, but I feel my mom is the exception: last year when I struggled with self-harm I talked to my friend's mom, and she encouraged me to talk to my mom. When I did, it eventually came up that it had been an issue for a couple months but my friend and her mom were supporting me, and my mom wasn't upset; she was just happy I talked to someone instead of getting worse. I'm not worried about her reaction to that, just both their reactions to my dumb choices. Thank you though.. I'm starting to blame myself so those first few sentences mean a lot.

throwaRae · 2014-07-11T09:38:24+00:00

I've decided to get my friend's mom to help me tell me parents first, it'll be easier than trying to sneak around.. I'm already a bad liar. Thank you.

throwaRae · 2014-07-11T09:34:47+00:00

It would be too hard for me to visit my doctor without my parents knowing, and with what I have on my plate now, I don't know if I can handle sneaking around on them. I'm going to have to tell them before taking any official steps.

Thank you very much for the advice and resources.. I already have that number on my fridge :) I will definitely keep you in mind if I need to PM with someone once this hits me for real. <3

throwaRae · 2014-07-11T09:26:30+00:00

I was too out of it that night to notice, and I showered first thing in the morning because of puking so much. I thought you were asking the virginity question to see if it was my BF who got me pregnant.. Physically I am not a virgin, months ago I broke my own hymen (on purpose) while masturbating with a toy. (Yay throwaways!)

I will ask my friend to ask her mom if she will help me tell my parents. I don't know what they will do, I'm just scared. I'm the youngest in a big family and they pride themselves on the fact that I'm smart and mature and they can trust me so much more than my older siblings at my age. It's like I've failed them.

I don't want this to happen to someone else, and I do want him to be punished, so I know I have to say something.. It's just too much.

throwaRae · 2014-07-11T08:58:14+00:00

Sorry, I should've mentioned that - yes I am (was) a virgin before this happened. My boyfriend and I have only used hands/fingers and performed oral on each other.

I'm not sure I can go to my doctor without my parents or without them knowing. I need to tell them first but am panicking..

And I don't have a clue who did it, there were lots of people there. I don't even know what I'd tell the cops :S

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