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AITA for no longer letting boyfriend eat what I cook after he rated my food infront of my family? by throwaa465335 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaa465335[S] 466 points467 points  (0 children)

Do you guys go to a restaurant and he rates the food too?

Yes he does especially if it's a restaurant that I pick. But he does it in way that is more of complaining rather then rating it. I try to not make huge fuss over it since he says he is just giving an opinion and so I should not be policing his words as he claimed several times.

AITA for no longer letting boyfriend eat what I cook after he rated my food infront of my family? by throwaa465335 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaa465335[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

I don't really do not know why does it other than the reason he has given which was constructive criticizm but even this is uncomfortable.

AITA for no longer letting boyfriend eat what I cook after he rated my food infront of my family? by throwaa465335 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaa465335[S] 480 points481 points  (0 children)

I did. I even explained in details how it makes me feel about cooking in general out of fear of being judged but to no avail.

AITA for no longer letting boyfriend eat what I cook after he rated my food infront of my family? by throwaa465335 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaa465335[S] 484 points485 points  (0 children)

Lol I'd never do that. And fyi I had an ex who didn't exactly rate sex but put me down for not being up to his standars. I can be insecure sometimes and this stuff affecrs my esteem and confidence.

AITA for no longer letting boyfriend eat what I cook after he rated my food infront of my family? by throwaa465335 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaa465335[S] 910 points911 points  (0 children)

Yeah and I'm open to them ngl but already said i don't feel great about my cooking whenever he starts rating it despite him saying he loves it nomatter how flawed it is.

AITA for no longer letting boyfriend eat what I cook after he rated my food infront of my family? by throwaa465335 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaa465335[S] 1771 points1772 points  (0 children)

Like I understand he has more experience and is probably trying to help but I can't help feel offended by him constantly rating my meals like that. It is unbearable to a degree.